"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Inexperienced but not that shy

SmoothOperator

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This girl I'm working my game on doesn't get a lot of attention from guys so she's pretty inexperienced. But, she's not a shy girl in general, she just doesn't know anything about the male-female dynamic. Should I apply the same rules as a typical S-I girl? If not, how should I handle her? Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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blienk

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It should be easier...Just be careful though, lots of times an inexperienced girl will develop somewhat of an obsession over their first serious boyfriend.
 

splinterkb

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I bet she would be really impressed if you were to "show her" the ropes. It would show maturity, which is a very large turn on to girls mostly.
 

Luscious

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Originally posted by blienk
It should be easier...Just be careful though, lots of times an inexperienced girl will develop somewhat of an obsession over their first serious boyfriend.
Amen.
You want to be her boyfriend, not her 'experiment' or her obsession. It's a fine line.

Behave as you normally would. If she's interested in you, then nothing needs to be changed from how you normally would be.
 
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