Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Inexperienced but not that shy

SmoothOperator

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This girl I'm working my game on doesn't get a lot of attention from guys so she's pretty inexperienced. But, she's not a shy girl in general, she just doesn't know anything about the male-female dynamic. Should I apply the same rules as a typical S-I girl? If not, how should I handle her? Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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blienk

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It should be easier...Just be careful though, lots of times an inexperienced girl will develop somewhat of an obsession over their first serious boyfriend.
 

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I bet she would be really impressed if you were to "show her" the ropes. It would show maturity, which is a very large turn on to girls mostly.
 

Luscious

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Originally posted by blienk
It should be easier...Just be careful though, lots of times an inexperienced girl will develop somewhat of an obsession over their first serious boyfriend.
Amen.
You want to be her boyfriend, not her 'experiment' or her obsession. It's a fine line.

Behave as you normally would. If she's interested in you, then nothing needs to be changed from how you normally would be.
 
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