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He said the boyfriend was a weak beta-male.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Incident last summer
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Aha,missed that.But even so,its bad form. Even a weak beta male,for all we pity him,shouldnt have to deal with an in shape Alpha literally "stealing" his girl from under his noser.Karma etc
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It's bad form to be writing a thread like this a year after the fact. Sounds rather incel-tier.
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Ha! The other night I was at the bar in a mixed circle with my lady. I was in conversation when I feel her grab my arm and pull me close.
Later she tells me a younger girl was walking by and gave her a flirty smile and said to her "well Helllloooo..." When my lady took my arm the would-be lesbian suitress looked disappointed and said "oh..." and walked off down the bar.
Then there was the time in the Phoenix airport I was walking down the Terminal as a flight had just disembarked. The flight crew was leaving the gate when a stewardess made laser eye contact with me and then looked me up and down, head to toe. My girl saw it, gave her a smile as the stewardess gave her a little nod about 1 1/2 steps further she tells me.. "That girl just totally checked you out!" while I acted completely unawares. (Yeah I saw it....).
Point is sometimes showing your partner they are with someone desired by the opposite sex is a little bit of validation for the person you are with. Social proof within the relationship.
Now I've also been at an event where a girl got mad her boyfriend wasn't paying attention to her so she came and danced with me and that almost got me in a fight when he found out. Meanwhile I was unawares...
Later she tells me a younger girl was walking by and gave her a flirty smile and said to her "well Helllloooo..." When my lady took my arm the would-be lesbian suitress looked disappointed and said "oh..." and walked off down the bar.
Then there was the time in the Phoenix airport I was walking down the Terminal as a flight had just disembarked. The flight crew was leaving the gate when a stewardess made laser eye contact with me and then looked me up and down, head to toe. My girl saw it, gave her a smile as the stewardess gave her a little nod about 1 1/2 steps further she tells me.. "That girl just totally checked you out!" while I acted completely unawares. (Yeah I saw it....).
Point is sometimes showing your partner they are with someone desired by the opposite sex is a little bit of validation for the person you are with. Social proof within the relationship.
Now I've also been at an event where a girl got mad her boyfriend wasn't paying attention to her so she came and danced with me and that almost got me in a fight when he found out. Meanwhile I was unawares...
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Yea. Also Betas can respond emotional and extreme because they have feminized emotions,...and,... can live in a bad neighborhood and be packing heat. Doesn't take a body builder to pull a trigger,...and out of control emotions,...bad combination. Don't forget,...many "school shooters" are considered "Beta".
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hahaha
I think knives have landed in ribs over stuff lesser than this.