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He said the boyfriend was a weak beta-male.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Incident last summer
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Aha,missed that.But even so,its bad form. Even a weak beta male,for all we pity him,shouldnt have to deal with an in shape Alpha literally "stealing" his girl from under his noser.Karma etc
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It's bad form to be writing a thread like this a year after the fact. Sounds rather incel-tier.
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Ha! The other night I was at the bar in a mixed circle with my lady. I was in conversation when I feel her grab my arm and pull me close.
Later she tells me a younger girl was walking by and gave her a flirty smile and said to her "well Helllloooo..." When my lady took my arm the would-be lesbian suitress looked disappointed and said "oh..." and walked off down the bar.
Then there was the time in the Phoenix airport I was walking down the Terminal as a flight had just disembarked. The flight crew was leaving the gate when a stewardess made laser eye contact with me and then looked me up and down, head to toe. My girl saw it, gave her a smile as the stewardess gave her a little nod about 1 1/2 steps further she tells me.. "That girl just totally checked you out!" while I acted completely unawares. (Yeah I saw it....).
Point is sometimes showing your partner they are with someone desired by the opposite sex is a little bit of validation for the person you are with. Social proof within the relationship.
Now I've also been at an event where a girl got mad her boyfriend wasn't paying attention to her so she came and danced with me and that almost got me in a fight when he found out. Meanwhile I was unawares...
Later she tells me a younger girl was walking by and gave her a flirty smile and said to her "well Helllloooo..." When my lady took my arm the would-be lesbian suitress looked disappointed and said "oh..." and walked off down the bar.
Then there was the time in the Phoenix airport I was walking down the Terminal as a flight had just disembarked. The flight crew was leaving the gate when a stewardess made laser eye contact with me and then looked me up and down, head to toe. My girl saw it, gave her a smile as the stewardess gave her a little nod about 1 1/2 steps further she tells me.. "That girl just totally checked you out!" while I acted completely unawares. (Yeah I saw it....).
Point is sometimes showing your partner they are with someone desired by the opposite sex is a little bit of validation for the person you are with. Social proof within the relationship.
Now I've also been at an event where a girl got mad her boyfriend wasn't paying attention to her so she came and danced with me and that almost got me in a fight when he found out. Meanwhile I was unawares...
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Yea. Also Betas can respond emotional and extreme because they have feminized emotions,...and,... can live in a bad neighborhood and be packing heat. Doesn't take a body builder to pull a trigger,...and out of control emotions,...bad combination. Don't forget,...many "school shooters" are considered "Beta".
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hahaha
I think knives have landed in ribs over stuff lesser than this.