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I'm chatting to a girl I met , in person conversation and effort is very high. although over message, replies are very slow. If she was busy then understandable but she's always on her phone.

Just asking for advice
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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BigFoot04 said:
I'm chatting to a girl I met , in person conversation and effort is very high. although over message, replies are very slow. If she was busy then understandable but she's always on her phone.

Just asking for advice
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You are missing one of the principles of female nature: Actions over words.

In your case, you are on the good side of things. She is displaying positive actions. Focus on what she does, not what she says or in this case texts.

Also, guys need to stop overthinking interactions we have with women. Relax, enjoy it, man. Focus on what you can control and embrace every possible outcome chin up high.

Over and out.


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If you're noticing her replies being slower, match them. You're probably overeager yourself.

Cue for getting busy with your own life.
 
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BigFoot04 said:
I'm chatting to a girl I met , in person conversation and effort is very high. although over message, replies are very slow. If she was busy then understandable but she's always on her phone.
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Modern Man Advice said:
You are missing one of the principles of female nature: Actions over words.

In your case, you are on the good side of things. She is displaying positive actions. Focus on what she does, not what she says or in this case texts.

Also, guys need to stop overthinking interactions we have with women. Relax, enjoy it, man. Focus on what you can control and embrace every possible outcome chin up high.

Over and out.


Modern Man Advice
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Solid advice thank you.
 
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darksprezzatura said:
If you're noticing her replies being slower, match them. You're probably overeager yourself.

Cue for getting busy with your own life.
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being off for Christmas has done this I think. im back working and doing hobbies very soon so it shouldn't bother me for long.
 
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