"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In person effort is high , over the test non existent

BigFoot04

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I'm chatting to a girl I met , in person conversation and effort is very high. although over message, replies are very slow. If she was busy then understandable but she's always on her phone.

Just asking for advice
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Modern Man Advice

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I'm chatting to a girl I met , in person conversation and effort is very high. although over message, replies are very slow. If she was busy then understandable but she's always on her phone.

Just asking for advice
You are missing one of the principles of female nature: Actions over words.

In your case, you are on the good side of things. She is displaying positive actions. Focus on what she does, not what she says or in this case texts.

Also, guys need to stop overthinking interactions we have with women. Relax, enjoy it, man. Focus on what you can control and embrace every possible outcome chin up high.

Over and out.


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darksprezzatura

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If you're noticing her replies being slower, match them. You're probably overeager yourself.

Cue for getting busy with your own life.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BigFoot04

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I'm chatting to a girl I met , in person conversation and effort is very high. although over message, replies are very slow. If she was busy then understandable but she's always on her phone.
You are missing one of the principles of female nature: Actions over words.

In your case, you are on the good side of things. She is displaying positive actions. Focus on what she does, not what she says or in this case texts.

Also, guys need to stop overthinking interactions we have with women. Relax, enjoy it, man. Focus on what you can control and embrace every possible outcome chin up high.

Over and out.


Modern Man Advice
Solid advice thank you.
 

BigFoot04

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If you're noticing her replies being slower, match them. You're probably overeager yourself.

Cue for getting busy with your own life.
being off for Christmas has done this I think. im back working and doing hobbies very soon so it shouldn't bother me for long.
 
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