"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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In need of serious help (Prom)

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Hey guys, new to this forum. I'm 16 years old and in need of some help. I wanna ask this girl to prom but I don't know how. Shes in one of my classes and we talk and stuff but sometimes i don't even have the confidence to text her because i think it could ruin our friendship and make it awkward, but i wanna take it to the next step. Its hard to take it to the next step though because i see her talking to this guy in the mornings and hes a grade higher than me so idk what to do. What do you guys think i should do, im head over heels for this girl.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yes, it's very possible it could ruin your friendship and make things awkward. But it won't be awkward forever.

Decide what you want more. If you don't make a move soon, you will never have her.
 
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Is this a question about prom?
If you want a good way to ask her to prom, I can help you.
If you want advice on what you should do with this girl..
Show interest/make a move
 
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AlexLefty said:
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Is this a question about prom?
If you want a good way to ask her to prom, I can help you.
If you want advice on what you should do with this girl..
Show interest/make a move
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For right now, prom. I'm just scared she already has a date, prom is in a month
 
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Ive got prom in a month too. Hahhah, I dont even spare it a thought. It will surely be interesting to see who I'll end up with, considering my new habit of seemingly swapping chicks every few weeks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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UPDATE: I asked the girl today and she said maybe, idk if thats a yes or no though. Hopefully its a yes forum
 
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Soccer4Life said:
UPDATE: I asked the girl today and she said maybe, idk if thats a yes or no though. Hopefully its a yes forum
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She's looking for better opportunities before she makes a final decision. Get yourself some options and take the above chick on a date.
 
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