"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In need of serious help (Prom)

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Hey guys, new to this forum. I'm 16 years old and in need of some help. I wanna ask this girl to prom but I don't know how. Shes in one of my classes and we talk and stuff but sometimes i don't even have the confidence to text her because i think it could ruin our friendship and make it awkward, but i wanna take it to the next step. Its hard to take it to the next step though because i see her talking to this guy in the mornings and hes a grade higher than me so idk what to do. What do you guys think i should do, im head over heels for this girl.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yes, it's very possible it could ruin your friendship and make things awkward. But it won't be awkward forever.

Decide what you want more. If you don't make a move soon, you will never have her.
 
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Is this a question about prom?
If you want a good way to ask her to prom, I can help you.
If you want advice on what you should do with this girl..
Show interest/make a move
 
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AlexLefty said:
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Is this a question about prom?
If you want a good way to ask her to prom, I can help you.
If you want advice on what you should do with this girl..
Show interest/make a move
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For right now, prom. I'm just scared she already has a date, prom is in a month
 
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Ive got prom in a month too. Hahhah, I dont even spare it a thought. It will surely be interesting to see who I'll end up with, considering my new habit of seemingly swapping chicks every few weeks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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UPDATE: I asked the girl today and she said maybe, idk if thats a yes or no though. Hopefully its a yes forum
 
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Soccer4Life said:
UPDATE: I asked the girl today and she said maybe, idk if thats a yes or no though. Hopefully its a yes forum
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She's looking for better opportunities before she makes a final decision. Get yourself some options and take the above chick on a date.
 
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