"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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In need of serious help (Prom)

Soccer4Life

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Hey guys, new to this forum. I'm 16 years old and in need of some help. I wanna ask this girl to prom but I don't know how. Shes in one of my classes and we talk and stuff but sometimes i don't even have the confidence to text her because i think it could ruin our friendship and make it awkward, but i wanna take it to the next step. Its hard to take it to the next step though because i see her talking to this guy in the mornings and hes a grade higher than me so idk what to do. What do you guys think i should do, im head over heels for this girl.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LearningSlowly

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Yes, it's very possible it could ruin your friendship and make things awkward. But it won't be awkward forever.

Decide what you want more. If you don't make a move soon, you will never have her.
 

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Is this a question about prom?
If you want a good way to ask her to prom, I can help you.
If you want advice on what you should do with this girl..
Show interest/make a move
 

Soccer4Life

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AlexLefty said:
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Is this a question about prom?
If you want a good way to ask her to prom, I can help you.
If you want advice on what you should do with this girl..
Show interest/make a move
For right now, prom. I'm just scared she already has a date, prom is in a month
 

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Ive got prom in a month too. Hahhah, I dont even spare it a thought. It will surely be interesting to see who I'll end up with, considering my new habit of seemingly swapping chicks every few weeks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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UPDATE: I asked the girl today and she said maybe, idk if thats a yes or no though. Hopefully its a yes forum
 

NorwegianDJ

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Soccer4Life said:
UPDATE: I asked the girl today and she said maybe, idk if thats a yes or no though. Hopefully its a yes forum
She's looking for better opportunities before she makes a final decision. Get yourself some options and take the above chick on a date.
 
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