"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

In need of serious help (Prom)

S

Soccer4Life

New Member
Joined
Apr 17, 2012
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
Hey guys, new to this forum. I'm 16 years old and in need of some help. I wanna ask this girl to prom but I don't know how. Shes in one of my classes and we talk and stuff but sometimes i don't even have the confidence to text her because i think it could ruin our friendship and make it awkward, but i wanna take it to the next step. Its hard to take it to the next step though because i see her talking to this guy in the mornings and hes a grade higher than me so idk what to do. What do you guys think i should do, im head over heels for this girl.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

L

LearningSlowly

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 8, 2011
Messages
1,206
Reaction score
12
Location
Atlanta
Yes, it's very possible it could ruin your friendship and make things awkward. But it won't be awkward forever.

Decide what you want more. If you don't make a move soon, you will never have her.
 
A

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
755
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
....
Is this a question about prom?
If you want a good way to ask her to prom, I can help you.
If you want advice on what you should do with this girl..
Show interest/make a move
 
S

Soccer4Life

New Member
Joined
Apr 17, 2012
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
AlexLefty said:
....
Is this a question about prom?
If you want a good way to ask her to prom, I can help you.
If you want advice on what you should do with this girl..
Show interest/make a move
Click to expand...
For right now, prom. I'm just scared she already has a date, prom is in a month
 
N

NorwegianDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 8, 2010
Messages
2,553
Reaction score
83
Ive got prom in a month too. Hahhah, I dont even spare it a thought. It will surely be interesting to see who I'll end up with, considering my new habit of seemingly swapping chicks every few weeks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

S

Soccer4Life

New Member
Joined
Apr 17, 2012
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
UPDATE: I asked the girl today and she said maybe, idk if thats a yes or no though. Hopefully its a yes forum
 
N

NorwegianDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 8, 2010
Messages
2,553
Reaction score
83
Soccer4Life said:
UPDATE: I asked the girl today and she said maybe, idk if thats a yes or no though. Hopefully its a yes forum
Click to expand...
She's looking for better opportunities before she makes a final decision. Get yourself some options and take the above chick on a date.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top