"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SexinEar

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I'll make this short. This bit*h that wants me who I ljbf'd got me so pissed off by telling me that two hot girls shes friends with think i'm fuc*ing weird and fuc*ing scrawney.

I causaly curl weights, doing 25lbs now, trying my best to bulk.

Anyway, this bit*h pissed me off so bad I lifted like a motherf*cking beast like my life depended on it and my arms became beefed out like crazy from one day.

My question
After a rough workout, under the 25lbs i currently lift, would it be a smart idea to take the day off?
Or get this b!tch to piss me off again and lift like hell. I'm a little sore btw, but ive been through worse soreness.

Im 16 if that makes a difference.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Rata Blanca

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Get enought rest men, and If you are trying to get bigger remember the 3 best exercises are bench, squat and deadlift.
 

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SexinEar said:
I'll make this short. This bit*h that wants me who I ljbf'd got me so pissed off by telling me that two hot girls shes friends with think i'm fuc*ing weird and fuc*ing scrawney.

I causaly curl weights, doing 25lbs now, trying my best to bulk.

Anyway, this bit*h pissed me off so bad I lifted like a motherf*cking beast like my life depended on it and my arms became beefed out like crazy from one day.

My question
After a rough workout, under the 25lbs i currently lift, would it be a smart idea to take the day off?
Or get this b!tch to piss me off again and lift like hell. I'm a little sore btw, but ive been through worse soreness.

Im 16 if that makes a difference.
Firstly who cares what some stupid girl says? She'll probably be in a couple abusive relationships and end up pregnant by 21... and worthless like most people in the world. Control that anger.

Now squat frequently and don't do another curl for 2 years.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The anger is what motivated me to lift like a fukin nut. Usally i'm too lazy to. Thanks, ill try some squats and deadlifts too, some more curls in 2 years haha u mean 2 days or just do curls every day.
 

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SexinEar said:
The anger is what motivated me to lift like a fukin nut. Usally i'm too lazy to. Thanks, ill try some squats and deadlifts too, some more curls in 2 years haha u mean 2 days or just do curls every day.
Nevermind, hit the books instead.
 
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