"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Important Lifting Question

SexinEar

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I'll make this short. This bit*h that wants me who I ljbf'd got me so pissed off by telling me that two hot girls shes friends with think i'm fuc*ing weird and fuc*ing scrawney.

I causaly curl weights, doing 25lbs now, trying my best to bulk.

Anyway, this bit*h pissed me off so bad I lifted like a motherf*cking beast like my life depended on it and my arms became beefed out like crazy from one day.

My question
After a rough workout, under the 25lbs i currently lift, would it be a smart idea to take the day off?
Or get this b!tch to piss me off again and lift like hell. I'm a little sore btw, but ive been through worse soreness.

Im 16 if that makes a difference.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rata Blanca

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Get enought rest men, and If you are trying to get bigger remember the 3 best exercises are bench, squat and deadlift.
 

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SexinEar said:
I'll make this short. This bit*h that wants me who I ljbf'd got me so pissed off by telling me that two hot girls shes friends with think i'm fuc*ing weird and fuc*ing scrawney.

I causaly curl weights, doing 25lbs now, trying my best to bulk.

Anyway, this bit*h pissed me off so bad I lifted like a motherf*cking beast like my life depended on it and my arms became beefed out like crazy from one day.

My question
After a rough workout, under the 25lbs i currently lift, would it be a smart idea to take the day off?
Or get this b!tch to piss me off again and lift like hell. I'm a little sore btw, but ive been through worse soreness.

Im 16 if that makes a difference.
Firstly who cares what some stupid girl says? She'll probably be in a couple abusive relationships and end up pregnant by 21... and worthless like most people in the world. Control that anger.

Now squat frequently and don't do another curl for 2 years.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SexinEar

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The anger is what motivated me to lift like a fukin nut. Usally i'm too lazy to. Thanks, ill try some squats and deadlifts too, some more curls in 2 years haha u mean 2 days or just do curls every day.
 

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SexinEar said:
The anger is what motivated me to lift like a fukin nut. Usally i'm too lazy to. Thanks, ill try some squats and deadlifts too, some more curls in 2 years haha u mean 2 days or just do curls every day.
Nevermind, hit the books instead.
 
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