"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SexinEar

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I'll make this short. This bit*h that wants me who I ljbf'd got me so pissed off by telling me that two hot girls shes friends with think i'm fuc*ing weird and fuc*ing scrawney.

I causaly curl weights, doing 25lbs now, trying my best to bulk.

Anyway, this bit*h pissed me off so bad I lifted like a motherf*cking beast like my life depended on it and my arms became beefed out like crazy from one day.

My question
After a rough workout, under the 25lbs i currently lift, would it be a smart idea to take the day off?
Or get this b!tch to piss me off again and lift like hell. I'm a little sore btw, but ive been through worse soreness.

Im 16 if that makes a difference.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rata Blanca

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Get enought rest men, and If you are trying to get bigger remember the 3 best exercises are bench, squat and deadlift.
 

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SexinEar said:
I'll make this short. This bit*h that wants me who I ljbf'd got me so pissed off by telling me that two hot girls shes friends with think i'm fuc*ing weird and fuc*ing scrawney.

I causaly curl weights, doing 25lbs now, trying my best to bulk.

Anyway, this bit*h pissed me off so bad I lifted like a motherf*cking beast like my life depended on it and my arms became beefed out like crazy from one day.

My question
After a rough workout, under the 25lbs i currently lift, would it be a smart idea to take the day off?
Or get this b!tch to piss me off again and lift like hell. I'm a little sore btw, but ive been through worse soreness.

Im 16 if that makes a difference.
Firstly who cares what some stupid girl says? She'll probably be in a couple abusive relationships and end up pregnant by 21... and worthless like most people in the world. Control that anger.

Now squat frequently and don't do another curl for 2 years.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The anger is what motivated me to lift like a fukin nut. Usally i'm too lazy to. Thanks, ill try some squats and deadlifts too, some more curls in 2 years haha u mean 2 days or just do curls every day.
 

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SexinEar said:
The anger is what motivated me to lift like a fukin nut. Usally i'm too lazy to. Thanks, ill try some squats and deadlifts too, some more curls in 2 years haha u mean 2 days or just do curls every day.
Nevermind, hit the books instead.
 
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