"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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IMPORTANT: Eliminate ****blockers???

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How do eliminate ****blockers who are in your way of getting the girl? At a dance couple of weeks ago with a friend. These two girls were into, but these two *******s kept trying to get in the way. We ended up with the girls, but it was just annoying. Also, today was walking out of class with this girl when this guy who has been trying unsuccessfully all semester came up. Wouldn't leave us the f*** alone. What are somethings that can be done? Other then punishing them in the face. lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You have to be the sun that blocks out all the stars.

Think about what I'm telling you to do.

I'll tell you what I'm talking about after you respond.
 
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Can you give more details of what happened?

A lot of times, maintaning your cool is all that's needed. For example, the guy that was unsuccessful all semester.. Well, if he's been unsuccessful all semester, then he'll likely be unsuccessful again. Relax, and use him as comic relief. Or, just talk to him directly, being friendly. It confuses him, and diffuses him. Having class in front of your woman scores points for you.
 
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You could tell them she's your girlfriend in front of her - if she's interested in you or doesn't want those fella's near her she will play along.

Afterall, one of the qualities of being a good boyfriend is been able to keep @ssholes away from her.

There's nothing stopping you from keeping the role-play up either, "Since you're my girl.. <insert phrase>".

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You could tell them she's your girlfriend in front of her - if she's interested in you or doesn't want those fella's near her she will play along.

Afterall, one of the qualities of being a good boyfriend is been able to keep @ssholes away from her.

There's nothing stopping you from keeping the role-play up either, "Since you're my girl.. <insert phrase>".

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Agreed nice post. **** blocking has to do with physical prescense tooo. Take a guy that is 6'5 and 260 pounds of muscle he isn't going to get ****blocked as often as someone who is 5'4 110 pounds.


Working out and getting buff can help.. Also looking like you are a confident tough guy.
 
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Originally posted by Faded Image:

You have to be the sun that blocks out all the stars.

Think about what I'm telling you to do.

I'll tell you what I'm talking about after you respond.

Okay I think you mean that I have to know I'm better or I have to be better.
Kind of not sure.
 
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Posted by Thomas93045:

Can you give more details of what happened?

A lot of times, maintaning your cool is all that's needed. For example, the guy that was unsuccessful all semester.. Well, if he's been unsuccessful all semester, then he'll likely be unsuccessful again. Relax, and use him as comic relief. Or, just talk to him directly, being friendly. It confuses him, and diffuses him. Having class in front of your woman scores points for you.

Yeah I probably should've done. Was actually think of that afterward, but was just annoyed about the fool at the time. Just kept thinking, 'you got to be kidding me buddy. she's got no interest in you.'
 
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