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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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IMPORTANT: Eliminate ****blockers???

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How do eliminate ****blockers who are in your way of getting the girl? At a dance couple of weeks ago with a friend. These two girls were into, but these two *******s kept trying to get in the way. We ended up with the girls, but it was just annoying. Also, today was walking out of class with this girl when this guy who has been trying unsuccessfully all semester came up. Wouldn't leave us the f*** alone. What are somethings that can be done? Other then punishing them in the face. lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You have to be the sun that blocks out all the stars.

Think about what I'm telling you to do.

I'll tell you what I'm talking about after you respond.
 
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Can you give more details of what happened?

A lot of times, maintaning your cool is all that's needed. For example, the guy that was unsuccessful all semester.. Well, if he's been unsuccessful all semester, then he'll likely be unsuccessful again. Relax, and use him as comic relief. Or, just talk to him directly, being friendly. It confuses him, and diffuses him. Having class in front of your woman scores points for you.
 
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You could tell them she's your girlfriend in front of her - if she's interested in you or doesn't want those fella's near her she will play along.

Afterall, one of the qualities of being a good boyfriend is been able to keep @ssholes away from her.

There's nothing stopping you from keeping the role-play up either, "Since you're my girl.. <insert phrase>".

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You could tell them she's your girlfriend in front of her - if she's interested in you or doesn't want those fella's near her she will play along.

Afterall, one of the qualities of being a good boyfriend is been able to keep @ssholes away from her.

There's nothing stopping you from keeping the role-play up either, "Since you're my girl.. <insert phrase>".

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Agreed nice post. **** blocking has to do with physical prescense tooo. Take a guy that is 6'5 and 260 pounds of muscle he isn't going to get ****blocked as often as someone who is 5'4 110 pounds.


Working out and getting buff can help.. Also looking like you are a confident tough guy.
 
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Originally posted by Faded Image:

You have to be the sun that blocks out all the stars.

Think about what I'm telling you to do.

I'll tell you what I'm talking about after you respond.

Okay I think you mean that I have to know I'm better or I have to be better.
Kind of not sure.
 
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Posted by Thomas93045:

Can you give more details of what happened?

A lot of times, maintaning your cool is all that's needed. For example, the guy that was unsuccessful all semester.. Well, if he's been unsuccessful all semester, then he'll likely be unsuccessful again. Relax, and use him as comic relief. Or, just talk to him directly, being friendly. It confuses him, and diffuses him. Having class in front of your woman scores points for you.

Yeah I probably should've done. Was actually think of that afterward, but was just annoyed about the fool at the time. Just kept thinking, 'you got to be kidding me buddy. she's got no interest in you.'
 
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