"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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IMPORTANT: Eliminate ****blockers???

AverageJoe5

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How do eliminate ****blockers who are in your way of getting the girl? At a dance couple of weeks ago with a friend. These two girls were into, but these two *******s kept trying to get in the way. We ended up with the girls, but it was just annoying. Also, today was walking out of class with this girl when this guy who has been trying unsuccessfully all semester came up. Wouldn't leave us the f*** alone. What are somethings that can be done? Other then punishing them in the face. lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You have to be the sun that blocks out all the stars.

Think about what I'm telling you to do.

I'll tell you what I'm talking about after you respond.
 

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Can you give more details of what happened?

A lot of times, maintaning your cool is all that's needed. For example, the guy that was unsuccessful all semester.. Well, if he's been unsuccessful all semester, then he'll likely be unsuccessful again. Relax, and use him as comic relief. Or, just talk to him directly, being friendly. It confuses him, and diffuses him. Having class in front of your woman scores points for you.
 

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You could tell them she's your girlfriend in front of her - if she's interested in you or doesn't want those fella's near her she will play along.

Afterall, one of the qualities of being a good boyfriend is been able to keep @ssholes away from her.

There's nothing stopping you from keeping the role-play up either, "Since you're my girl.. <insert phrase>".

The Muscly Jerk
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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musclyjerk said:
You could tell them she's your girlfriend in front of her - if she's interested in you or doesn't want those fella's near her she will play along.

Afterall, one of the qualities of being a good boyfriend is been able to keep @ssholes away from her.

There's nothing stopping you from keeping the role-play up either, "Since you're my girl.. <insert phrase>".

The Muscly Jerk
Agreed nice post. **** blocking has to do with physical prescense tooo. Take a guy that is 6'5 and 260 pounds of muscle he isn't going to get ****blocked as often as someone who is 5'4 110 pounds.


Working out and getting buff can help.. Also looking like you are a confident tough guy.
 

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Originally posted by Faded Image:

You have to be the sun that blocks out all the stars.

Think about what I'm telling you to do.

I'll tell you what I'm talking about after you respond.


Okay I think you mean that I have to know I'm better or I have to be better.
Kind of not sure.
 

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Posted by Thomas93045:

Can you give more details of what happened?

A lot of times, maintaning your cool is all that's needed. For example, the guy that was unsuccessful all semester.. Well, if he's been unsuccessful all semester, then he'll likely be unsuccessful again. Relax, and use him as comic relief. Or, just talk to him directly, being friendly. It confuses him, and diffuses him. Having class in front of your woman scores points for you.


Yeah I probably should've done. Was actually think of that afterward, but was just annoyed about the fool at the time. Just kept thinking, 'you got to be kidding me buddy. she's got no interest in you.'
 
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