"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"I'm ugly"

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What's a good response when a girl says that? I've heard that maybe 2-3 times in my life. I have no idea why some girls say that... for me, I think its a test. I dont know what to do with that test, so I often say nothing.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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if its just some girl , dont say nothing or yeah ive noticed then smile

if its your girllfriend reasure her shes beautiful
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"I'm hungry, let's get something to eat" work in every situation you can ever be in.
 

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Yo, to all of you with the "I've noticed" replies, what the hell is wrong with you people? First of all, what's either ****y or funny about that reply? I'm adduming that the girls who say that kind of shyt have some sort of self esteem problem, so why make it worse? Plus notice that neg hits and that kind of stuff is intended to throw 8-10 of their pedestals, should they be in one, NOT to make some ugly girl go cry home at night.

A bit more thinking fellas...
 

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its only happend to me once a while ago and there was a positive outcome. this girl i was with said something like "i dont like the way i look. im not pretty." and i acted like was mad as hell and i said something along the lines of "now your insulting me. i only am attracted to the best, and for anyone to say i would focus this much attention on anything less is to call me a fool." she then appologized to me and i said "dont appologize to me, appologize to yourself". girl was on my nutz till i broke up with her from that point on.

I think i actually scared her. and now that i think about it, its had to be confusing for her. because on one hand i was mad at her but on the other hand i was complimenting her.
 

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
"I'm hungry, let's get something to eat" work in every situation you can ever be in.
This is great stuff. I'm add it to my arsenal Lifeforce benchmaster #2. Better than that C&F BuLLSHAT.

Also, GONZALO is ON THE FOCKING SPOT with his post. Wtf is C&F for? Too boost your little penis? I mean, ego? Calling a chick ugly when she's askin for something else isn't funny. It's not ****y. It's not DJ.

It's fukin stupid.

Now let me share what I would do, and have done with great success 1 time. Now don't ignore this cuz it just happened 1 time, but chicks don't just come up to you and say "i'm ugly" everyday. Ok here's what you do (if the girl isn't ugly and you see her as an 8 or better):

Her: I'm ugly :(
Me: ::tilts chin up and kisses her:: Now would an ugly girl have gotten that?
Her: :)

See that is fukin smooth, excuse the bad punctuation, grammar, and spelling but it's late. anyhow, it worked so use it my friends. Don't let c&f get to your head anymore than it has.

edit: oh yea, if she isn't too good looking and says that. don't just ignore her but also don't press it cuz then you're a fukin tampon and you gotta lie and stuff and that'll screw you over in the long run. just be like "don't say that" and go on with what Lifeforce said or change the subject. Nothing insensitive though.
 
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