"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"I'm ugly"

SpeedRunner

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What's a good response when a girl says that? I've heard that maybe 2-3 times in my life. I have no idea why some girls say that... for me, I think its a test. I dont know what to do with that test, so I often say nothing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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if its just some girl , dont say nothing or yeah ive noticed then smile

if its your girllfriend reasure her shes beautiful
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lifeforce

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"I'm hungry, let's get something to eat" work in every situation you can ever be in.
 

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Yo, to all of you with the "I've noticed" replies, what the hell is wrong with you people? First of all, what's either ****y or funny about that reply? I'm adduming that the girls who say that kind of shyt have some sort of self esteem problem, so why make it worse? Plus notice that neg hits and that kind of stuff is intended to throw 8-10 of their pedestals, should they be in one, NOT to make some ugly girl go cry home at night.

A bit more thinking fellas...
 

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its only happend to me once a while ago and there was a positive outcome. this girl i was with said something like "i dont like the way i look. im not pretty." and i acted like was mad as hell and i said something along the lines of "now your insulting me. i only am attracted to the best, and for anyone to say i would focus this much attention on anything less is to call me a fool." she then appologized to me and i said "dont appologize to me, appologize to yourself". girl was on my nutz till i broke up with her from that point on.

I think i actually scared her. and now that i think about it, its had to be confusing for her. because on one hand i was mad at her but on the other hand i was complimenting her.
 

Kerensky

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
"I'm hungry, let's get something to eat" work in every situation you can ever be in.
This is great stuff. I'm add it to my arsenal Lifeforce benchmaster #2. Better than that C&F BuLLSHAT.

Also, GONZALO is ON THE FOCKING SPOT with his post. Wtf is C&F for? Too boost your little penis? I mean, ego? Calling a chick ugly when she's askin for something else isn't funny. It's not ****y. It's not DJ.

It's fukin stupid.

Now let me share what I would do, and have done with great success 1 time. Now don't ignore this cuz it just happened 1 time, but chicks don't just come up to you and say "i'm ugly" everyday. Ok here's what you do (if the girl isn't ugly and you see her as an 8 or better):

Her: I'm ugly :(
Me: ::tilts chin up and kisses her:: Now would an ugly girl have gotten that?
Her: :)

See that is fukin smooth, excuse the bad punctuation, grammar, and spelling but it's late. anyhow, it worked so use it my friends. Don't let c&f get to your head anymore than it has.

edit: oh yea, if she isn't too good looking and says that. don't just ignore her but also don't press it cuz then you're a fukin tampon and you gotta lie and stuff and that'll screw you over in the long run. just be like "don't say that" and go on with what Lifeforce said or change the subject. Nothing insensitive though.
 
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