SpeedRunner
Don Juan
What's a good response when a girl says that? I've heard that maybe 2-3 times in my life. I have no idea why some girls say that... for me, I think its a test. I dont know what to do with that test, so I often say nothing.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
"I'm ugly"
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
Are they actually ugly? 
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yo, to all of you with the "I've noticed" replies, what the hell is wrong with you people? First of all, what's either ****y or funny about that reply? I'm adduming that the girls who say that kind of shyt have some sort of self esteem problem, so why make it worse? Plus notice that neg hits and that kind of stuff is intended to throw 8-10 of their pedestals, should they be in one, NOT to make some ugly girl go cry home at night.
A bit more thinking fellas...
A bit more thinking fellas...
its only happend to me once a while ago and there was a positive outcome. this girl i was with said something like "i dont like the way i look. im not pretty." and i acted like was mad as hell and i said something along the lines of "now your insulting me. i only am attracted to the best, and for anyone to say i would focus this much attention on anything less is to call me a fool." she then appologized to me and i said "dont appologize to me, appologize to yourself". girl was on my nutz till i broke up with her from that point on.
I think i actually scared her. and now that i think about it, its had to be confusing for her. because on one hand i was mad at her but on the other hand i was complimenting her.
I think i actually scared her. and now that i think about it, its had to be confusing for her. because on one hand i was mad at her but on the other hand i was complimenting her.
Kerensky
Master Don Juan
This is great stuff. I'm add it to my arsenal Lifeforce benchmaster #2. Better than that C&F BuLLSHAT.
Also, GONZALO is ON THE FOCKING SPOT with his post. Wtf is C&F for? Too boost your little penis? I mean, ego? Calling a chick ugly when she's askin for something else isn't funny. It's not ****y. It's not DJ.
It's fukin stupid.
Now let me share what I would do, and have done with great success 1 time. Now don't ignore this cuz it just happened 1 time, but chicks don't just come up to you and say "i'm ugly" everyday. Ok here's what you do (if the girl isn't ugly and you see her as an 8 or better):
Her: I'm ugly
Me: ::tilts chin up and kisses her:: Now would an ugly girl have gotten that?
Her:
See that is fukin smooth, excuse the bad punctuation, grammar, and spelling but it's late. anyhow, it worked so use it my friends. Don't let c&f get to your head anymore than it has.
edit: oh yea, if she isn't too good looking and says that. don't just ignore her but also don't press it cuz then you're a fukin tampon and you gotta lie and stuff and that'll screw you over in the long run. just be like "don't say that" and go on with what Lifeforce said or change the subject. Nothing insensitive though.