I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
busted!wolf116 said:Because fat must make you fat because it is called fat. Alex you should know this lol
AmateurWarboss Alex said:busted!
*hangs head in shame*
GEEEZ, that's it!! HAHA. J/K.wolf116 said:BTW She has the best form in the squat and DL I have ever seen!
Squat: 40kgs
Bench: 30kgs
DL: 55kgs
They are 3RM's
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
alex, ur gonna have to explain this to me man....Warboss Alex said:no, fullfat yogurt is amazing for you. what's the point of taking the fat out?
naturally occurring fats (monounsaturated, polyunsaturated and saturated) are anything but bad from you in the correct balance.Crazy Asian said:alex, ur gonna have to explain this to me man....
i always though fat was bad for you as well. (except omega 3 and some others)
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Do you realize you need a balance of all the natural fats for testosterone production?Crazy Asian said:alex, ur gonna have to explain this to me man....
i always though fat was bad for you as well. (except omega 3 and some others)
Interesting. Source?wolf116 said:Do you realize you need a balance of all the natural fats for testosterone production?
You have been hanging around here long enough to know the other benefits of fats.
Dear Sosuave moderators,hope7 said:Interesting. Source?
Low-fat diets decrease test. levels. There's plenty of benefits to saturated fats:hope7 said:Interesting. Source?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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She actually reminds me of my ex but she is getting hot while my ex gets fat.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.