"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Because fat must make you fat because it is called fat. Alex you should know this lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wolf116 said:
BTW She has the best form in the squat and DL I have ever seen!

Squat: 40kgs
Bench: 30kgs
DL: 55kgs

They are 3RM's
GEEEZ, that's it!! HAHA. J/K.

Is she interested in gaining any muscle at all?

For me: I eat 5-6 meals per day, 3 of those meals are protein shakes, because I'm lazy. :cheer: (Fiber, Protein, Carb) Sometimes, I don't eat carbs at night. I know I'm supposed to, but my boyfriend and I are having a best ab competition, and yanno.

Supplements: Animal Pak multi; glucosamine; fish oil; biotin; L-glutamine (powder morning, afternoon, before work outs). I always do protein shakes first thing in the morning and right before bed. I don't do them with milk, water only.

If she is a waitress, she could bring the powder to work. You said earlier she isn't into protein shakes, right? Well, tell her to suck it up and do it anyway. :rock:
 

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Ooops, I forgot flax seed. :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How many calories is she getting on her diet??

It is very possible if she doesn't eat enough her metabolism could slow down making it harder for her to lose the weight after constantly dieting at an extremely low level of calories. I recommend a diet around 2000 calories with all the cardio she is doing it will provide great results, but she needs plenty of protein otherwise there will be lots of muscle loss.

I know a bit in this area as i have gotten my ex who was about 165 to a pretty lean 128 in a matter six months or so. I read your friend's stats and its very close to my girl. Pretty much even.

Btw...fatfree yogurt is amazing for you, you just have to get the right brand with very little sugar.

I also i recommend a different kind of cardio other than a bike or a treadmill Tell her that lots of sex is needed for weight loss, and if she wants to lose some breast size recommend t***y f***ing you
 

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no, fullfat yogurt is amazing for you. what's the point of taking the fat out?
 

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no, fullfat yogurt is amazing for you. what's the point of taking the fat out?
alex, ur gonna have to explain this to me man....
i always though fat was bad for you as well. (except omega 3 and some others)
 

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Crazy Asian said:
alex, ur gonna have to explain this to me man....
i always though fat was bad for you as well. (except omega 3 and some others)
naturally occurring fats (monounsaturated, polyunsaturated and saturated) are anything but bad from you in the correct balance.

SOME people will have issues with butterfat (i.e. fat from dairy products) but not as many as will have issues with lactose.

yogurt itself is full of friendly gut bacteria and has some protein (complete) and anabolic fat.. it's great for you.

as for fats in general - the bulk of Americans/Europeans today would do best on a mod-high protein, mod-high fat and low carb approach. when people lose the processed grains (bread, pasta, oats etc) and start using fruit and veg for their (low) carb intake that will be when obesity, heart disease and high cholesterol rates will drop dramatically.

and also when the medical industry crumbles so we know it'll never happen. :D
 

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Dear "Nice Guy,"

Between those two photos she seems to have a very screwed up posture. You said she's fixed up a bit from the second photo but it's clear as heck that her hips are all screwed up and feet drastically everted. The first photo shows what i think is a badly tilted pelvis though i know some of that is from leaning over.

She's just begging for an eventual injury if she's not going to correct these.



My real question is what is your goal here? Why are you doing this for her if she won't even listen? It doesn't sound like she's too invested in it if anything diet wise she has some excuse not to do it. I don't like nuts.. i'll only eat chicken.. i'll cheat every other day... i'll only eat certain vegetables and those are all the ones that will keep me from losing weight... i don't believe in any religion but if "god helps those who help themselves" why are you trying with someone who won't help themselves? I wouldn't bother if she's not really serious about it. And how much would you put up with if this was a dude?

I had a girl who claims to want to lose weight and wanted me to get her set in a training plan and diet but she still wants to go on 3 day drinking binges. Yeah, right.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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@ Mr R
I don't know what was going on with that old photo but she has great posture. Shoulders back and straight spine, sits straight.
In the first photo I got her to push her but up real hard and she couldn't hold that position very long.

Well this girl came from a family of fast food eaters and has changed her diet immensely to my recommendation, she also gave up clubbing. She has tried the food that I recommended but is repulsed by them. She is serious about this.

Yes I am treating her a little different then I would a guy but It's in my nature to be more gentle and patient with women and I don't care if it's not DJ.
 

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Crazy Asian said:
alex, ur gonna have to explain this to me man....
i always though fat was bad for you as well. (except omega 3 and some others)
Do you realize you need a balance of all the natural fats for testosterone production?

You have been hanging around here long enough to know the other benefits of fats.
 

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wolf116 said:
Do you realize you need a balance of all the natural fats for testosterone production?

You have been hanging around here long enough to know the other benefits of fats.
Interesting. Source?
 

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hope7 said:
Interesting. Source?
Dear Sosuave moderators,
Please make available a smiley either, bashing his head against a wall or beating his head with a hammer.
Thank you.
 

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hope7 said:
Interesting. Source?
Low-fat diets decrease test. levels. There's plenty of benefits to saturated fats:

http://www.westonaprice.org/knowyourfats/skinny.htmll#benefits

Plus saturated fat is nearly always accompanied by cholesterol. Dietary cholesterol is a precursor to testosterone.

I just got done reading Mary Enig's full treatment, a 2000 book also called "Know Your Fats" -- the first two chapters are mostly quite technical, but in general, free of some of Sally Fallon's quirkiness her writing is generally less strident and better-supported than the above link.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Will she eat dark-meat chicken (thighs, drumsticks, wings)? Nitrate-free turkey? Egg salad? Pork? Ham? Ham salad? BLTs? Just throwing out some other meat possibilities for variety...

Also, can she re-heat food at work? That could help her get more veggies...

Mr R>> I disagree with your conclusion that her dietary finickiness means she isn't committed. I've worked with several gals who are possibly even more finicky, but highly dedicated to their lifting. But at some point, they have to face up to the reality that w/o embracing some new foods & rejecting the conventional wisdom about saturated fat, they're wasting their time in the gym.
 

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New plan.
She will be driving 1 hour to train with me on a tuesay, wednesday or Thursday depending on work. She is very determined.

Training

Example

Mon: Morning fasted cardio (30mins)
Tue: HIIT
Wed: 50% weight of Saturday, more reps + morning cardio (30mins)
Thu: HIIT
Fri: Morning fasted cardio (30mins)
Sat: Full body strength training
Sun: rest

Diet

She will try her hardest to follow a keto diet with a carb day on Saturday. Is this right Alex?
What about fruit and whey after workouts, good?

meal1: 2 eggs + greens
meal2: whey shake + creme/flax oil(full fat yogurt?)
meal3: salami salad
meal4: whey shake + strawberries + 5 fish oil tabs
meal5: deli turkey + lettuce +5 fish oil tabs
meal6: chicken breast + veggies + goats cheese

A green tea before every cardio session. 1 gram vitamin c with solid meals.

snacks: sugar free sweets, strawberries and green veggies.

Is this an optimum plan? How much weight loss is expected per week?
How much water a day?
Any pills that speed up fat loss?

Anyone have any other girlie no-carb meal ideas?
Thanks
 
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Massive improvement, dam thats looking extreamly hot.

Is that your GF, that i saw a pic of a while back?

Or is this a new piece of skirt?
 

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new:D

She actually reminds me of my ex but she is getting hot while my ex gets fat.

I have known/trained her for over six months though.
 

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wolf116 said:
new:D

She actually reminds me of my ex but she is getting hot while my ex gets fat.

Nice, i approve :D

Your Ex is probably getting fat due to 'emotional sorrow' it usually happens, they either go on a super diet if they think they can win you back, or if they know its a lost cause they 'comfort eat' normally.

Thats some nice piece of as*, you have there and she seems to have a great attitude.

Shes done well.

Anyway of topic, but had to give you props :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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