She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
busted!wolf116 said:Because fat must make you fat because it is called fat. Alex you should know this lol
AmateurWarboss Alex said:busted!
*hangs head in shame*
GEEEZ, that's it!! HAHA. J/K.wolf116 said:BTW She has the best form in the squat and DL I have ever seen!
Squat: 40kgs
Bench: 30kgs
DL: 55kgs
They are 3RM's
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
alex, ur gonna have to explain this to me man....Warboss Alex said:no, fullfat yogurt is amazing for you. what's the point of taking the fat out?
naturally occurring fats (monounsaturated, polyunsaturated and saturated) are anything but bad from you in the correct balance.Crazy Asian said:alex, ur gonna have to explain this to me man....
i always though fat was bad for you as well. (except omega 3 and some others)
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Do you realize you need a balance of all the natural fats for testosterone production?Crazy Asian said:alex, ur gonna have to explain this to me man....
i always though fat was bad for you as well. (except omega 3 and some others)
Interesting. Source?wolf116 said:Do you realize you need a balance of all the natural fats for testosterone production?
You have been hanging around here long enough to know the other benefits of fats.
Dear Sosuave moderators,hope7 said:Interesting. Source?
Low-fat diets decrease test. levels. There's plenty of benefits to saturated fats:hope7 said:Interesting. Source?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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She actually reminds me of my ex but she is getting hot while my ex gets fat.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.