Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
busted!wolf116 said:Because fat must make you fat because it is called fat. Alex you should know this lol
AmateurWarboss Alex said:busted!
*hangs head in shame*
GEEEZ, that's it!! HAHA. J/K.wolf116 said:BTW She has the best form in the squat and DL I have ever seen!
Squat: 40kgs
Bench: 30kgs
DL: 55kgs
They are 3RM's
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
alex, ur gonna have to explain this to me man....Warboss Alex said:no, fullfat yogurt is amazing for you. what's the point of taking the fat out?
naturally occurring fats (monounsaturated, polyunsaturated and saturated) are anything but bad from you in the correct balance.Crazy Asian said:alex, ur gonna have to explain this to me man....
i always though fat was bad for you as well. (except omega 3 and some others)
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Do you realize you need a balance of all the natural fats for testosterone production?Crazy Asian said:alex, ur gonna have to explain this to me man....
i always though fat was bad for you as well. (except omega 3 and some others)
Interesting. Source?wolf116 said:Do you realize you need a balance of all the natural fats for testosterone production?
You have been hanging around here long enough to know the other benefits of fats.
Dear Sosuave moderators,hope7 said:Interesting. Source?
Low-fat diets decrease test. levels. There's plenty of benefits to saturated fats:hope7 said:Interesting. Source?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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She actually reminds me of my ex but she is getting hot while my ex gets fat.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.