Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
busted!wolf116 said:Because fat must make you fat because it is called fat. Alex you should know this lol
AmateurWarboss Alex said:busted!
*hangs head in shame*
GEEEZ, that's it!! HAHA. J/K.wolf116 said:BTW She has the best form in the squat and DL I have ever seen!
Squat: 40kgs
Bench: 30kgs
DL: 55kgs
They are 3RM's
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
alex, ur gonna have to explain this to me man....Warboss Alex said:no, fullfat yogurt is amazing for you. what's the point of taking the fat out?
naturally occurring fats (monounsaturated, polyunsaturated and saturated) are anything but bad from you in the correct balance.Crazy Asian said:alex, ur gonna have to explain this to me man....
i always though fat was bad for you as well. (except omega 3 and some others)
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Do you realize you need a balance of all the natural fats for testosterone production?Crazy Asian said:alex, ur gonna have to explain this to me man....
i always though fat was bad for you as well. (except omega 3 and some others)
Interesting. Source?wolf116 said:Do you realize you need a balance of all the natural fats for testosterone production?
You have been hanging around here long enough to know the other benefits of fats.
Dear Sosuave moderators,hope7 said:Interesting. Source?
Low-fat diets decrease test. levels. There's plenty of benefits to saturated fats:hope7 said:Interesting. Source?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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She actually reminds me of my ex but she is getting hot while my ex gets fat.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.