"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Im too shy.

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How do you do the boot camp? I looked for a link and everything. What exactly is it anyway? I saw when it started and everything....I wanted to do it then!

Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by I want a GiRl
The boot camp makes u become a dj if u do everything im currently in week 1 and ive talked to a total of one stranger out the moment :p

heres the link for boot camp : http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/djbc.pdf
Dude, I just started week one and i'm still overcoming my chokes. I've never said "hi" just to total strangers before....

....oh well. Good luck, I want a GiRl.
 

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how do u do that quote thing :p, anyway boyfriend if ur to shy to say hi to a stranger practise smiling at them and holding eye contact and when ur ready and more confident just say hi!

ive been doing bootcamp for 1 day and im still quite shy so ive only spoken to 1 stranger but i think thats quite good coz i went out for 5 mins to do the exercise :p but ill go out for like an hour tomo coz im busy today :)
 

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Originally posted by I want a GiRl
how do u do that quote thing :p,
Hit the quote button, next to "Edit" on the persons post, or copy what they wrote, hit the "Quote" button in the reply window, and paste it in there.

also to do the :p face you gotta use a lower case p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Vincent
Hit the quote button, next to "Edit" on the persons post, or copy what they wrote, hit the "Quote" button in the reply window, and paste it in there.

also to do the :p face you gotta use a lower case p
ok ty :p
 

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Originally posted by I want a GiRl
how do u do that quote thing :p, anyway boyfriend if ur to shy to say hi to a stranger practise smiling at them and holding eye contact and when ur ready and more confident just say hi!

ive been doing bootcamp for 1 day and im still quite shy so ive only spoken to 1 stranger but i think thats quite good coz i went out for 5 mins to do the exercise :p but ill go out for like an hour tomo coz im busy today :)
Yeah, what Vincent said....lol. My confidence is increasing since I'm now able to say a lot more hi's and hello's. I'm still a little bit shy, but I have to break out of that shell someday.

Once again, good luck. I hope to see you at a graduation ceremony of some sort. :)
 

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If you can't get the nerves to cold approach on your own, just make friends with some crazy mofos and tell them you guys are going to approach at least two girls together per day or you'll slit his throat. This is what I've been doing.
 

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Originally posted by Nex
If you can't get the nerves to cold approach on your own, just make friends with some crazy mofos and tell them you guys are going to approach at least two girls together per day or you'll slit his throat. This is what I've been doing.
lol n1 nex but theres no crazy mofo in my school :p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Try money....

I think in the "Tips" section, this guy had like a hundred bucks on the line if he didn't get rejected by ten girls.

Worked like a charm....lol.
 

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Originally posted by I want a GiRl
lol, i allready did that and i lost £5
You're a tool. Put your manhood on it next time. It'll rid the rest of us of a bad name
 

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AAAHHH i saw her today with a group of 9 and i didnt approach aahh i need help bootcamp isnt working :S
 

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Come out the closet. You're gay, and attention seeking. Nothing will work without you having the desire to make it work. Once you get that, we can help you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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