My mom won't stop *****ing, because my grades are really bad, and i'm not becoming a DJ because i'm too lazy to read the material. I am seriously a loser all i do is watch TV, and go on the computer. I need help changing. My life has been so depressing, because i'm lazy and i feel so pathetic, because my mom gave up on me and disowned me. I dont care though cause she's the biggest ***** in the world, but i want to change my ways for myself. My mom disowning me just opened my eyes. I REALLY NEED HELP!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I'm too damn lazy and need life changing advice
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
No one will give you an advice you already know. Only you know what you need to do and only you can do it. Instead of being helpless start doing something about it! maybe its a good thing your mom is being a b1tch because it makes you angry and being angry is a damn good motivator to change for the better.
Rint,
You need self-esteem. You need motivation. You can get those by exercising. Want to fix your life? Stop feeling so damn bad about yourself and FIX things. Reading the DJ Bible will not take that long, so just get it done. The one thing you need to realize is that you may not want to do it, but if you start on it you will slowly begin to have the urge to -finish- it.
This is how life goes, so start on one thing, then when you finish it start on the next solution. Once you finish the DJ bible, try getting out of the house more often. To bring your grades up, go read your textbooks outside everyday. Getting some sun helps you in many ways. Turn off your computer until X pm everyday, put restrictions on the things in your life that distract you from living -life-.
Once you get your mind on the right track, everything will fall into place and you will be a better person.
Keep your head up, build up your confidence, cut out the wasteful things in your life (tv & computer), and start living life my man! Remember you only live once (or so I have been told =D )!
You need self-esteem. You need motivation. You can get those by exercising. Want to fix your life? Stop feeling so damn bad about yourself and FIX things. Reading the DJ Bible will not take that long, so just get it done. The one thing you need to realize is that you may not want to do it, but if you start on it you will slowly begin to have the urge to -finish- it.
This is how life goes, so start on one thing, then when you finish it start on the next solution. Once you finish the DJ bible, try getting out of the house more often. To bring your grades up, go read your textbooks outside everyday. Getting some sun helps you in many ways. Turn off your computer until X pm everyday, put restrictions on the things in your life that distract you from living -life-.
Once you get your mind on the right track, everything will fall into place and you will be a better person.
Keep your head up, build up your confidence, cut out the wasteful things in your life (tv & computer), and start living life my man! Remember you only live once (or so I have been told =D )!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Kev07
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Read this
Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki
Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Do not just weight train. Run your ass off, do alot of cardio. Your brain releases certain endorphins when you do aerobic exercises which raises your mood. And we can't tell you how to make good grades, only you can do that.
Enjoy life, and don't hold back from anything. Think of what you might be missing out on by spending too much time watching tv or on the computer. That should be a good motivator.
Enjoy life, and don't hold back from anything. Think of what you might be missing out on by spending too much time watching tv or on the computer. That should be a good motivator.
afrojiggles
Don Juan
finally a society of men from all over the globe caring ad giving each other sound advice......paradise is here guys
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
You get bad grades? You're lazy?
Don't worry... I foresee a future for you...
Schoolbus driver!
Hey man, if you're such a lazy bastard, do something about it. Change your freaking day rhythm, throw that TV out the window and instead, whenever you have time available, work on school.
So eazy.
The third post nails it, YOU NEED TO DO IT YOURSELF. Nobody else can do it for you! No matter how much advice you get, the whole point of feeling accomplished is that you actually have to work for it!
Don't worry... I foresee a future for you...
Schoolbus driver!
Hey man, if you're such a lazy bastard, do something about it. Change your freaking day rhythm, throw that TV out the window and instead, whenever you have time available, work on school.
So eazy.
The third post nails it, YOU NEED TO DO IT YOURSELF. Nobody else can do it for you! No matter how much advice you get, the whole point of feeling accomplished is that you actually have to work for it!
I got a solution for you: Become a window washer!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
TheNastyPlayer
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I changed my life 7 years ago and never ever looked back.
I was in bed on Christmas Eve 2000 and was totally sad probably like you are right now. Anyway - I made my mind up right there right then to actually work to change my life.
I actually decided to move things on - I decided to "get going" with things.
You can think about things the way you are - hopeless and non-improving, but without real thought and some energy you aren't going to get anywhere.
You sound like you have your looks sorted, so just work on your personality. Just think about being kind and courteous to your female comerades. Treat them as equals not as inferiors (or superiors) and they should like you for it in return.
Just a few thoughts - if you want to hear my whole story just PM me Ill be happy to help
I was in bed on Christmas Eve 2000 and was totally sad probably like you are right now. Anyway - I made my mind up right there right then to actually work to change my life.
I actually decided to move things on - I decided to "get going" with things.
You can think about things the way you are - hopeless and non-improving, but without real thought and some energy you aren't going to get anywhere.
You sound like you have your looks sorted, so just work on your personality. Just think about being kind and courteous to your female comerades. Treat them as equals not as inferiors (or superiors) and they should like you for it in return.
Just a few thoughts - if you want to hear my whole story just PM me Ill be happy to help
organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
call me a prick but if you're gonna lazy around at least enjoy yourself in the process of being lazy..if you're not enjoying yourself then you might as well go to sleep!
Diesel_Power
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Watch this video, unless your too lazy. I know that being lazy means your attention span is probably short. But please watch all 5 parts (except 3). I'm posting this here for you.
Part:1 http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=3478738232243710553&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part 2: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=8885346408132454607&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part 3: can't find it
Part 4: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-1175034415750265502&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part 5: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-6820812664449132914&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part:1 http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=3478738232243710553&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part 2: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=8885346408132454607&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part 3: can't find it
Part 4: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-1175034415750265502&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part 5: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-6820812664449132914&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Dannyrt34 said:
Best. Advice. Evar.
I've noticed that if I go for a 5 minute run (note run, not walk or light jog) about once a week or so I'm much more energetic for the rest of that week. The week I "stop" (mainly out of laziness) I am a slug and don't want to do anything but sit at the computer. Just get out there and exercise, you have no idea how much it helps your mood and body's health. Trust me. Just once a week.
TheNastyPlayer
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i've found that actually, Jon55.
If you run far as well it gives you a sense of achievment which rubs off onto other things that you do.
If you run far as well it gives you a sense of achievment which rubs off onto other things that you do.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.