My mom won't stop *****ing, because my grades are really bad, and i'm not becoming a DJ because i'm too lazy to read the material. I am seriously a loser all i do is watch TV, and go on the computer. I need help changing. My life has been so depressing, because i'm lazy and i feel so pathetic, because my mom gave up on me and disowned me. I dont care though cause she's the biggest ***** in the world, but i want to change my ways for myself. My mom disowning me just opened my eyes. I REALLY NEED HELP!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm too damn lazy and need life changing advice
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
No one will give you an advice you already know. Only you know what you need to do and only you can do it. Instead of being helpless start doing something about it! maybe its a good thing your mom is being a b1tch because it makes you angry and being angry is a damn good motivator to change for the better.
Rint,
You need self-esteem. You need motivation. You can get those by exercising. Want to fix your life? Stop feeling so damn bad about yourself and FIX things. Reading the DJ Bible will not take that long, so just get it done. The one thing you need to realize is that you may not want to do it, but if you start on it you will slowly begin to have the urge to -finish- it.
This is how life goes, so start on one thing, then when you finish it start on the next solution. Once you finish the DJ bible, try getting out of the house more often. To bring your grades up, go read your textbooks outside everyday. Getting some sun helps you in many ways. Turn off your computer until X pm everyday, put restrictions on the things in your life that distract you from living -life-.
Once you get your mind on the right track, everything will fall into place and you will be a better person.
Keep your head up, build up your confidence, cut out the wasteful things in your life (tv & computer), and start living life my man! Remember you only live once (or so I have been told =D )!
You need self-esteem. You need motivation. You can get those by exercising. Want to fix your life? Stop feeling so damn bad about yourself and FIX things. Reading the DJ Bible will not take that long, so just get it done. The one thing you need to realize is that you may not want to do it, but if you start on it you will slowly begin to have the urge to -finish- it.
This is how life goes, so start on one thing, then when you finish it start on the next solution. Once you finish the DJ bible, try getting out of the house more often. To bring your grades up, go read your textbooks outside everyday. Getting some sun helps you in many ways. Turn off your computer until X pm everyday, put restrictions on the things in your life that distract you from living -life-.
Once you get your mind on the right track, everything will fall into place and you will be a better person.
Keep your head up, build up your confidence, cut out the wasteful things in your life (tv & computer), and start living life my man! Remember you only live once (or so I have been told =D )!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Kev07
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Read this
Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki
Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Do not just weight train. Run your ass off, do alot of cardio. Your brain releases certain endorphins when you do aerobic exercises which raises your mood. And we can't tell you how to make good grades, only you can do that.
Enjoy life, and don't hold back from anything. Think of what you might be missing out on by spending too much time watching tv or on the computer. That should be a good motivator.
Enjoy life, and don't hold back from anything. Think of what you might be missing out on by spending too much time watching tv or on the computer. That should be a good motivator.
afrojiggles
Don Juan
finally a society of men from all over the globe caring ad giving each other sound advice......paradise is here guys
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
You get bad grades? You're lazy?
Don't worry... I foresee a future for you...
Schoolbus driver!
Hey man, if you're such a lazy bastard, do something about it. Change your freaking day rhythm, throw that TV out the window and instead, whenever you have time available, work on school.
So eazy.
The third post nails it, YOU NEED TO DO IT YOURSELF. Nobody else can do it for you! No matter how much advice you get, the whole point of feeling accomplished is that you actually have to work for it!
Don't worry... I foresee a future for you...
Schoolbus driver!
Hey man, if you're such a lazy bastard, do something about it. Change your freaking day rhythm, throw that TV out the window and instead, whenever you have time available, work on school.
So eazy.
The third post nails it, YOU NEED TO DO IT YOURSELF. Nobody else can do it for you! No matter how much advice you get, the whole point of feeling accomplished is that you actually have to work for it!
I got a solution for you: Become a window washer!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
TheNastyPlayer
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I changed my life 7 years ago and never ever looked back.
I was in bed on Christmas Eve 2000 and was totally sad probably like you are right now. Anyway - I made my mind up right there right then to actually work to change my life.
I actually decided to move things on - I decided to "get going" with things.
You can think about things the way you are - hopeless and non-improving, but without real thought and some energy you aren't going to get anywhere.
You sound like you have your looks sorted, so just work on your personality. Just think about being kind and courteous to your female comerades. Treat them as equals not as inferiors (or superiors) and they should like you for it in return.
Just a few thoughts - if you want to hear my whole story just PM me Ill be happy to help
I was in bed on Christmas Eve 2000 and was totally sad probably like you are right now. Anyway - I made my mind up right there right then to actually work to change my life.
I actually decided to move things on - I decided to "get going" with things.
You can think about things the way you are - hopeless and non-improving, but without real thought and some energy you aren't going to get anywhere.
You sound like you have your looks sorted, so just work on your personality. Just think about being kind and courteous to your female comerades. Treat them as equals not as inferiors (or superiors) and they should like you for it in return.
Just a few thoughts - if you want to hear my whole story just PM me Ill be happy to help
organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
call me a prick but if you're gonna lazy around at least enjoy yourself in the process of being lazy..if you're not enjoying yourself then you might as well go to sleep!
Diesel_Power
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Watch this video, unless your too lazy. I know that being lazy means your attention span is probably short. But please watch all 5 parts (except 3). I'm posting this here for you.
Part:1 http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=3478738232243710553&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part 2: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=8885346408132454607&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part 3: can't find it
Part 4: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-1175034415750265502&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part 5: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-6820812664449132914&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part:1 http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=3478738232243710553&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part 2: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=8885346408132454607&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part 3: can't find it
Part 4: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-1175034415750265502&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part 5: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-6820812664449132914&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Dannyrt34 said:
Best. Advice. Evar.
I've noticed that if I go for a 5 minute run (note run, not walk or light jog) about once a week or so I'm much more energetic for the rest of that week. The week I "stop" (mainly out of laziness) I am a slug and don't want to do anything but sit at the computer. Just get out there and exercise, you have no idea how much it helps your mood and body's health. Trust me. Just once a week.
TheNastyPlayer
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i've found that actually, Jon55.
If you run far as well it gives you a sense of achievment which rubs off onto other things that you do.
If you run far as well it gives you a sense of achievment which rubs off onto other things that you do.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.