My mom won't stop *****ing, because my grades are really bad, and i'm not becoming a DJ because i'm too lazy to read the material. I am seriously a loser all i do is watch TV, and go on the computer. I need help changing. My life has been so depressing, because i'm lazy and i feel so pathetic, because my mom gave up on me and disowned me. I dont care though cause she's the biggest ***** in the world, but i want to change my ways for myself. My mom disowning me just opened my eyes. I REALLY NEED HELP!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I'm too damn lazy and need life changing advice
- Thread starter Rint
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
No one will give you an advice you already know. Only you know what you need to do and only you can do it. Instead of being helpless start doing something about it! maybe its a good thing your mom is being a b1tch because it makes you angry and being angry is a damn good motivator to change for the better.
Rint,
You need self-esteem. You need motivation. You can get those by exercising. Want to fix your life? Stop feeling so damn bad about yourself and FIX things. Reading the DJ Bible will not take that long, so just get it done. The one thing you need to realize is that you may not want to do it, but if you start on it you will slowly begin to have the urge to -finish- it.
This is how life goes, so start on one thing, then when you finish it start on the next solution. Once you finish the DJ bible, try getting out of the house more often. To bring your grades up, go read your textbooks outside everyday. Getting some sun helps you in many ways. Turn off your computer until X pm everyday, put restrictions on the things in your life that distract you from living -life-.
Once you get your mind on the right track, everything will fall into place and you will be a better person.
Keep your head up, build up your confidence, cut out the wasteful things in your life (tv & computer), and start living life my man! Remember you only live once (or so I have been told =D )!
You need self-esteem. You need motivation. You can get those by exercising. Want to fix your life? Stop feeling so damn bad about yourself and FIX things. Reading the DJ Bible will not take that long, so just get it done. The one thing you need to realize is that you may not want to do it, but if you start on it you will slowly begin to have the urge to -finish- it.
This is how life goes, so start on one thing, then when you finish it start on the next solution. Once you finish the DJ bible, try getting out of the house more often. To bring your grades up, go read your textbooks outside everyday. Getting some sun helps you in many ways. Turn off your computer until X pm everyday, put restrictions on the things in your life that distract you from living -life-.
Once you get your mind on the right track, everything will fall into place and you will be a better person.
Keep your head up, build up your confidence, cut out the wasteful things in your life (tv & computer), and start living life my man! Remember you only live once (or so I have been told =D )!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Kev07
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Read this
Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki
Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Do not just weight train. Run your ass off, do alot of cardio. Your brain releases certain endorphins when you do aerobic exercises which raises your mood. And we can't tell you how to make good grades, only you can do that.
Enjoy life, and don't hold back from anything. Think of what you might be missing out on by spending too much time watching tv or on the computer. That should be a good motivator.
Enjoy life, and don't hold back from anything. Think of what you might be missing out on by spending too much time watching tv or on the computer. That should be a good motivator.
afrojiggles
Don Juan
finally a society of men from all over the globe caring ad giving each other sound advice......paradise is here guys
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
You get bad grades? You're lazy?
Don't worry... I foresee a future for you...
Schoolbus driver!
Hey man, if you're such a lazy bastard, do something about it. Change your freaking day rhythm, throw that TV out the window and instead, whenever you have time available, work on school.
So eazy.
The third post nails it, YOU NEED TO DO IT YOURSELF. Nobody else can do it for you! No matter how much advice you get, the whole point of feeling accomplished is that you actually have to work for it!
Don't worry... I foresee a future for you...
Schoolbus driver!
Hey man, if you're such a lazy bastard, do something about it. Change your freaking day rhythm, throw that TV out the window and instead, whenever you have time available, work on school.
So eazy.
The third post nails it, YOU NEED TO DO IT YOURSELF. Nobody else can do it for you! No matter how much advice you get, the whole point of feeling accomplished is that you actually have to work for it!
I got a solution for you: Become a window washer!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
TheNastyPlayer
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I changed my life 7 years ago and never ever looked back.
I was in bed on Christmas Eve 2000 and was totally sad probably like you are right now. Anyway - I made my mind up right there right then to actually work to change my life.
I actually decided to move things on - I decided to "get going" with things.
You can think about things the way you are - hopeless and non-improving, but without real thought and some energy you aren't going to get anywhere.
You sound like you have your looks sorted, so just work on your personality. Just think about being kind and courteous to your female comerades. Treat them as equals not as inferiors (or superiors) and they should like you for it in return.
Just a few thoughts - if you want to hear my whole story just PM me Ill be happy to help
I was in bed on Christmas Eve 2000 and was totally sad probably like you are right now. Anyway - I made my mind up right there right then to actually work to change my life.
I actually decided to move things on - I decided to "get going" with things.
You can think about things the way you are - hopeless and non-improving, but without real thought and some energy you aren't going to get anywhere.
You sound like you have your looks sorted, so just work on your personality. Just think about being kind and courteous to your female comerades. Treat them as equals not as inferiors (or superiors) and they should like you for it in return.
Just a few thoughts - if you want to hear my whole story just PM me Ill be happy to help
organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
call me a prick but if you're gonna lazy around at least enjoy yourself in the process of being lazy..if you're not enjoying yourself then you might as well go to sleep!
Diesel_Power
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Watch this video, unless your too lazy. I know that being lazy means your attention span is probably short. But please watch all 5 parts (except 3). I'm posting this here for you.
Part:1 http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=3478738232243710553&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part 2: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=8885346408132454607&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part 3: can't find it
Part 4: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-1175034415750265502&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part 5: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-6820812664449132914&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part:1 http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=3478738232243710553&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part 2: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=8885346408132454607&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part 3: can't find it
Part 4: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-1175034415750265502&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Part 5: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-6820812664449132914&q=the+life+of+my+dreams
Dannyrt34 said:
Best. Advice. Evar.
I've noticed that if I go for a 5 minute run (note run, not walk or light jog) about once a week or so I'm much more energetic for the rest of that week. The week I "stop" (mainly out of laziness) I am a slug and don't want to do anything but sit at the computer. Just get out there and exercise, you have no idea how much it helps your mood and body's health. Trust me. Just once a week.
TheNastyPlayer
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i've found that actually, Jon55.
If you run far as well it gives you a sense of achievment which rubs off onto other things that you do.
If you run far as well it gives you a sense of achievment which rubs off onto other things that you do.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.