Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm so scared

Luke_0209

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Was driving with some friends tonight, and well I didnt notice that my car lights were'nt on... but to top that they were yelling directions at my and the light turned red and well I ran the red. The cops lights came on and I knew I was ****ed. She came over ask for license, proof and insurance and my car registration. She walked back to the car and in a couple minutes came back stating "make sure you keep those lights on or you'll be see'ing us alot".

I know this is kinda pointless but my hearts still beating... just got my full so if I got the ticket for running that red I would have been a dead man when I got home!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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THE_ADDMAN

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was she a hot cop?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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spider_007

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If you never had a ticket or trouble with the law, you will get couple of free passes, im puirty sure they just write it up as a warning. After couple of those, that's when they start cracking down on you.

same thing happened to me, i got let off with 3 times, the forth time i got slaped with a $350 ticket and 4 points (i fought it though, $1200 later i had $60 ticket and no points)

Now that i think about it, your in US, so it might be different.
 

whistler

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eh, 1200 Canadian... that's like 20 bucks US.

kidding, kidding... especially with the dollar in the sh1tter


You'll only really be screwed if you're driving around with your friends smoking weed.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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I was having a really good day the other day, everything going well, finished the day in school and headed for my car. Turned on the music real loud, put on the sunglasses and drove away! As I started driving I noticed like a minute later that my seatbelt wasn't on! nowonder some girl that passed by looked at me funny. Sometimes we got so much stuff going on in our heads whether they be the good things happening to us or the bad stuff, that we lose focus when driving. That could have cost me a lot of dough if some cop had spotted me.

The first thing I always do after I open the car door is get in and put my seat belt on before I even turn on the car so I don't forget. That day I had so many thoughts in my head I lost my concentration. The moment we get in our cars is the moment we have to let some of our thoughts and emotions go and concentrate on driving safely. I learned my lesson.
 

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Joe The Homophobe said:
As I started driving I noticed like a minute later that my seatbelt wasn't on!
:eek: Driving without a seatbelt ?!! are you nuts ?! :rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Centaurion

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You get pretty hefty fines, and might loose your license if there are several people in the car without a seatbelt around here.
 

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Luke_0209 said:
Was driving with some friends tonight, and well I didnt notice that my car lights were'nt on... but to top that they were yelling directions at my and the light turned red and well I ran the red. The cops lights came on and I knew I was ****ed. She came over ask for license, proof and insurance and my car registration. She walked back to the car and in a couple minutes came back stating "make sure you keep those lights on or you'll be see'ing us alot".

I know this is kinda pointless but my hearts still beating... just got my full so if I got the ticket for running that red I would have been a dead man when I got home!

...man up?
 
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