"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm so scared

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Was driving with some friends tonight, and well I didnt notice that my car lights were'nt on... but to top that they were yelling directions at my and the light turned red and well I ran the red. The cops lights came on and I knew I was ****ed. She came over ask for license, proof and insurance and my car registration. She walked back to the car and in a couple minutes came back stating "make sure you keep those lights on or you'll be see'ing us alot".

I know this is kinda pointless but my hearts still beating... just got my full so if I got the ticket for running that red I would have been a dead man when I got home!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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THE_ADDMAN

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was she a hot cop?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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spider_007

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If you never had a ticket or trouble with the law, you will get couple of free passes, im puirty sure they just write it up as a warning. After couple of those, that's when they start cracking down on you.

same thing happened to me, i got let off with 3 times, the forth time i got slaped with a $350 ticket and 4 points (i fought it though, $1200 later i had $60 ticket and no points)

Now that i think about it, your in US, so it might be different.
 
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eh, 1200 Canadian... that's like 20 bucks US.

kidding, kidding... especially with the dollar in the sh1tter


You'll only really be screwed if you're driving around with your friends smoking weed.
 
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Joe The Homophobe

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I was having a really good day the other day, everything going well, finished the day in school and headed for my car. Turned on the music real loud, put on the sunglasses and drove away! As I started driving I noticed like a minute later that my seatbelt wasn't on! nowonder some girl that passed by looked at me funny. Sometimes we got so much stuff going on in our heads whether they be the good things happening to us or the bad stuff, that we lose focus when driving. That could have cost me a lot of dough if some cop had spotted me.

The first thing I always do after I open the car door is get in and put my seat belt on before I even turn on the car so I don't forget. That day I had so many thoughts in my head I lost my concentration. The moment we get in our cars is the moment we have to let some of our thoughts and emotions go and concentrate on driving safely. I learned my lesson.
 
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Joe The Homophobe said:
As I started driving I noticed like a minute later that my seatbelt wasn't on!
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:eek: Driving without a seatbelt ?!! are you nuts ?! :rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You get pretty hefty fines, and might loose your license if there are several people in the car without a seatbelt around here.
 
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Luke_0209 said:
Was driving with some friends tonight, and well I didnt notice that my car lights were'nt on... but to top that they were yelling directions at my and the light turned red and well I ran the red. The cops lights came on and I knew I was ****ed. She came over ask for license, proof and insurance and my car registration. She walked back to the car and in a couple minutes came back stating "make sure you keep those lights on or you'll be see'ing us alot".

I know this is kinda pointless but my hearts still beating... just got my full so if I got the ticket for running that red I would have been a dead man when I got home!
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...man up?
 
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