My Name is Nobody
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Where the hell is Latino Man when I need him the most?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
:crackup: , how dare you retract a statement!My Name is Nobody said:Hey I just updated the thread check out my previous post.
ZenGodMod said::crackup: , how dare you retract a statement!
Chick is being cautious. In a small town all women are careful. And since she is Brazilian and she wasn't born in your smallville, you might as well let the friend come along.
Maybe the friend is insisting because she may want to you just as much as you want her friend.
3some anyone?
You chances of success doesn't deteriorate just because there's a third leg. It wouldn't bother me, cause that to me it's 2 times a opportunity in one shot. 2 times the challenge and twice as much fun.
Don't doubt your game strength MNN, don't let your doubts determine your success. Get in there and take these beatches home.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Here's the best part of it all. they are ****21thedeparted said:then do them both ;-)
how old are they?
thedeparted said:
My Name is Nobody said:It looks like my NON chumpness last night is paying off! She is asking for my address so she can pick me up tonight! Now I hope she comes alone. I told her last night I don't want any friends along, let's see if she listens.. LOL!
Any last minute tips?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Get out of here woman!HOMBRE said:Tips?
How about that visible erection tip posted about earlier? That could work. So where is she taking you? I wonder if she'll kiss you goodnight when she drops you off.
Also, another tip...be really rude to her and call her bytch and tramp and stuff. Women dig it. She'll be all over you like white on rice.
Good luck!
Chillax. Have fun. Be the Man - cool, confident, collected.My Name is Nobody said:Any last minute tips?
^^A good example of how women like to belittle and shame male sexuality.HOMBRE said:Tips?
How about that visible erection tip posted about earlier? That could work. So where is she taking you? I wonder if she'll kiss you goodnight when she drops you off.
Also, another tip...be really rude to her and call her bytch and tramp and stuff. Women dig it. She'll be all over you like white on rice.
Good luck!
I'm not belittling anything. I'm just reminding him of the advice given elsewhere on this site in the articles. If he doesn't want to listen...oh well.ketostix said:^^A good example of how women like to belittle and shame male sexuality.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
HOMBRE said:I'm not belittling anything. I'm just reminding him of the advice given elsewhere on this site in the articles. If he doesn't want to listen...oh well.
Yeah sure. Point me to this advice because it's not what we say on here. Besides, a person could spend all day pointing out the advice on LS that is horrible. I don't want to divert MNIN's thread any further. If you want to post in it, instead of being negative, at least offer advice that is intended to be helpful in his goal as bad as I suspect your advice would be.HOMBRE said:I'm not belittling anything. I'm just reminding him of the advice given elsewhere on this site in the articles. If he doesn't want to listen...oh well.
It's like revenge of the nerds :crackup: .My Name is Nobody said:You are a TROLL pretending to be a man. Get the f/uck out of here.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.