My Name is Nobody
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Where the hell is Latino Man when I need him the most?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
:crackup: , how dare you retract a statement!My Name is Nobody said:Hey I just updated the thread check out my previous post.
ZenGodMod said::crackup: , how dare you retract a statement!
Chick is being cautious. In a small town all women are careful. And since she is Brazilian and she wasn't born in your smallville, you might as well let the friend come along.
Maybe the friend is insisting because she may want to you just as much as you want her friend.
3some anyone?
You chances of success doesn't deteriorate just because there's a third leg. It wouldn't bother me, cause that to me it's 2 times a opportunity in one shot. 2 times the challenge and twice as much fun.
Don't doubt your game strength MNN, don't let your doubts determine your success. Get in there and take these beatches home.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Here's the best part of it all. they are ****21thedeparted said:then do them both ;-)
how old are they?
thedeparted said:
My Name is Nobody said:It looks like my NON chumpness last night is paying off! She is asking for my address so she can pick me up tonight! Now I hope she comes alone. I told her last night I don't want any friends along, let's see if she listens.. LOL!
Any last minute tips?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Get out of here woman!HOMBRE said:Tips?
How about that visible erection tip posted about earlier? That could work. So where is she taking you? I wonder if she'll kiss you goodnight when she drops you off.
Also, another tip...be really rude to her and call her bytch and tramp and stuff. Women dig it. She'll be all over you like white on rice.
Good luck!
Chillax. Have fun. Be the Man - cool, confident, collected.My Name is Nobody said:Any last minute tips?
^^A good example of how women like to belittle and shame male sexuality.HOMBRE said:Tips?
How about that visible erection tip posted about earlier? That could work. So where is she taking you? I wonder if she'll kiss you goodnight when she drops you off.
Also, another tip...be really rude to her and call her bytch and tramp and stuff. Women dig it. She'll be all over you like white on rice.
Good luck!
I'm not belittling anything. I'm just reminding him of the advice given elsewhere on this site in the articles. If he doesn't want to listen...oh well.ketostix said:^^A good example of how women like to belittle and shame male sexuality.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
HOMBRE said:I'm not belittling anything. I'm just reminding him of the advice given elsewhere on this site in the articles. If he doesn't want to listen...oh well.
Yeah sure. Point me to this advice because it's not what we say on here. Besides, a person could spend all day pointing out the advice on LS that is horrible. I don't want to divert MNIN's thread any further. If you want to post in it, instead of being negative, at least offer advice that is intended to be helpful in his goal as bad as I suspect your advice would be.HOMBRE said:I'm not belittling anything. I'm just reminding him of the advice given elsewhere on this site in the articles. If he doesn't want to listen...oh well.
It's like revenge of the nerds :crackup: .My Name is Nobody said:You are a TROLL pretending to be a man. Get the f/uck out of here.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.