"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm ready to get laid again. Let's see how long it takes.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey I just updated the thread check out my previous post.
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:crackup: , how dare you retract a statement!

Chick is being cautious. In a small town all women are careful. And since she is Brazilian and she wasn't born in your smallville, you might as well let the friend come along.

Maybe the friend is insisting because she may want to you just as much as you want her friend.

3some anyone?

You chances of success doesn't deteriorate just because there's a third leg. It wouldn't bother me, cause that to me it's 2 times a opportunity in one shot. 2 times the challenge and twice as much fun.

Don't doubt your game strength MNN, don't let your doubts determine your success. Get in there and take these beatches home.
 
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:crackup: , how dare you retract a statement!

Chick is being cautious. In a small town all women are careful. And since she is Brazilian and she wasn't born in your smallville, you might as well let the friend come along.

Maybe the friend is insisting because she may want to you just as much as you want her friend.

3some anyone?

You chances of success doesn't deteriorate just because there's a third leg. It wouldn't bother me, cause that to me it's 2 times a opportunity in one shot. 2 times the challenge and twice as much fun.

Don't doubt your game strength MNN, don't let your doubts determine your success. Get in there and take these beatches home.
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To tell you the truth, I felt a vibe from the friend tonight. the friend could BARELY speak English at all. But I could see it, she wanted me more than the one I met originally.
 
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then do them both ;-)

how old are they?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It looks like my NON chumpness last night is paying off! She is asking for my address so she can pick me up tonight! Now I hope she comes alone. I told her last night I don't want any friends along, let's see if she listens.. LOL!


Any last minute tips?
 
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It looks like my NON chumpness last night is paying off! She is asking for my address so she can pick me up tonight! Now I hope she comes alone. I told her last night I don't want any friends along, let's see if she listens.. LOL!


Any last minute tips?
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Sounds good so far. I'm a little unsure why didn't you plan to pick her up instead? I like to be the one in the driver seat and in control if you know what I mean. It's a small advantage but usually an advantage nonetheless.Although it can work both ways because now she has to drive you back to your place. Maybe once she get's there suggest taking her out in your car?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tips?

How about that visible erection tip posted about earlier? That could work. So where is she taking you? I wonder if she'll kiss you goodnight when she drops you off.

Also, another tip...be really rude to her and call her bytch and tramp and stuff. Women dig it. She'll be all over you like white on rice.

Good luck!
 
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Tips?

How about that visible erection tip posted about earlier? That could work. So where is she taking you? I wonder if she'll kiss you goodnight when she drops you off.

Also, another tip...be really rude to her and call her bytch and tramp and stuff. Women dig it. She'll be all over you like white on rice.

Good luck!
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Get out of here woman!
 
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Any last minute tips?
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Chillax. Have fun. Be the Man - cool, confident, collected.

Whatever you end up doing make it exciting. Make her laugh. Tease her. Create some heat here and there and hold back.

Go back to whoever's place, suggest a movie and a drink. Sit on the couch, put your arm around her and start a token conversion about where you just went. Ignore the movie. Make her laugh, then make a move.

Wear a condom.
 
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HOMBRE said:
Tips?

How about that visible erection tip posted about earlier? That could work. So where is she taking you? I wonder if she'll kiss you goodnight when she drops you off.

Also, another tip...be really rude to her and call her bytch and tramp and stuff. Women dig it. She'll be all over you like white on rice.

Good luck!
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^^A good example of how women like to belittle and shame male sexuality.
 
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^^A good example of how women like to belittle and shame male sexuality.
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I'm not belittling anything. I'm just reminding him of the advice given elsewhere on this site in the articles. If he doesn't want to listen...oh well.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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make sure you lay it in her good.

no pansy stuff...if you hammer her good..she will think your a god.
 
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I'm not belittling anything. I'm just reminding him of the advice given elsewhere on this site in the articles. If he doesn't want to listen...oh well.
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You are a TROLL pretending to be a man. Get the f/uck out of here.
 
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I'm not belittling anything. I'm just reminding him of the advice given elsewhere on this site in the articles. If he doesn't want to listen...oh well.
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Yeah sure. Point me to this advice because it's not what we say on here. Besides, a person could spend all day pointing out the advice on LS that is horrible. I don't want to divert MNIN's thread any further. If you want to post in it, instead of being negative, at least offer advice that is intended to be helpful in his goal as bad as I suspect your advice would be.
 
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You are a TROLL pretending to be a man. Get the f/uck out of here.
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It's like revenge of the nerds :crackup: .
 
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Well I got bad news, she just told me she is bringing 2 friends. So I'm about to tell her to forget it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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