Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm on crutches

Alittude

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Hey guys I recently cracked my ankle in a soccer game and now I'm in a cast on crutches. I was just wondering what kind of game I could try on chicks. Anyone have any suggestions on what to do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alittude

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Come on guys there must be some of you that have been in this situatuion before.
 

TITANIUM_HeaRT

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fall down and cry how you cant get up and your leg hurts, thatll have all the chicks in the area help you up, then you can cop a feel on most of them and just say "oh excuse me sorry, ah cant seem to stand on my own."

;)
 

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You can ask girls to do stuff for you as openers. For example, can you help me open that door. I need you to put my backpack on me. Or can you hold my crutches while I pee.

You know!!

I read a post by a senior member, possibly MOTU, about a friend of his that would get women to do things for him BUT thank them after and shower them with compliments which goes against DJism. The girls lapped it all up as they loved helping out and felt they rightfully earned the attention. Bit of a mindfvck, I suggest you to do a search for that post. The thread starter was MOTU and subject title was "Raise Your Price, and Allow Women the Opportunity to Demonstrate Value to You".
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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