"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm on crutches

Alittude

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Hey guys I recently cracked my ankle in a soccer game and now I'm in a cast on crutches. I was just wondering what kind of game I could try on chicks. Anyone have any suggestions on what to do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Alittude

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Come on guys there must be some of you that have been in this situatuion before.
 

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fall down and cry how you cant get up and your leg hurts, thatll have all the chicks in the area help you up, then you can cop a feel on most of them and just say "oh excuse me sorry, ah cant seem to stand on my own."

;)
 

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You can ask girls to do stuff for you as openers. For example, can you help me open that door. I need you to put my backpack on me. Or can you hold my crutches while I pee.

You know!!

I read a post by a senior member, possibly MOTU, about a friend of his that would get women to do things for him BUT thank them after and shower them with compliments which goes against DJism. The girls lapped it all up as they loved helping out and felt they rightfully earned the attention. Bit of a mindfvck, I suggest you to do a search for that post. The thread starter was MOTU and subject title was "Raise Your Price, and Allow Women the Opportunity to Demonstrate Value to You".
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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