"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm on crutches

Alittude

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Hey guys I recently cracked my ankle in a soccer game and now I'm in a cast on crutches. I was just wondering what kind of game I could try on chicks. Anyone have any suggestions on what to do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alittude

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Come on guys there must be some of you that have been in this situatuion before.
 

TITANIUM_HeaRT

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fall down and cry how you cant get up and your leg hurts, thatll have all the chicks in the area help you up, then you can cop a feel on most of them and just say "oh excuse me sorry, ah cant seem to stand on my own."

;)
 

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You can ask girls to do stuff for you as openers. For example, can you help me open that door. I need you to put my backpack on me. Or can you hold my crutches while I pee.

You know!!

I read a post by a senior member, possibly MOTU, about a friend of his that would get women to do things for him BUT thank them after and shower them with compliments which goes against DJism. The girls lapped it all up as they loved helping out and felt they rightfully earned the attention. Bit of a mindfvck, I suggest you to do a search for that post. The thread starter was MOTU and subject title was "Raise Your Price, and Allow Women the Opportunity to Demonstrate Value to You".
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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