"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm on crutches

Alittude

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Hey guys I recently cracked my ankle in a soccer game and now I'm in a cast on crutches. I was just wondering what kind of game I could try on chicks. Anyone have any suggestions on what to do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Come on guys there must be some of you that have been in this situatuion before.
 

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fall down and cry how you cant get up and your leg hurts, thatll have all the chicks in the area help you up, then you can cop a feel on most of them and just say "oh excuse me sorry, ah cant seem to stand on my own."

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You can ask girls to do stuff for you as openers. For example, can you help me open that door. I need you to put my backpack on me. Or can you hold my crutches while I pee.

You know!!

I read a post by a senior member, possibly MOTU, about a friend of his that would get women to do things for him BUT thank them after and shower them with compliments which goes against DJism. The girls lapped it all up as they loved helping out and felt they rightfully earned the attention. Bit of a mindfvck, I suggest you to do a search for that post. The thread starter was MOTU and subject title was "Raise Your Price, and Allow Women the Opportunity to Demonstrate Value to You".
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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