SeymourCake
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I just wanna **** these girls from college and leave 'em. How can I achieve this?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
....SeymourCake said:But how though?
I was talking to some chick on FB and I was like "where are you? Come **** with me." She said, "excuse me?" And then took me off as a friend.
How? By starting to show them a little respect. A lot of girls are up for slagging around, have a f*ckbuddy without any strings attached for some casual action. But that requires that you treat them with proper respect.SeymourCake said:But how though?
I was talking to some chick on FB and I was like "where are you? Come **** with me." She said, "excuse me?" And then took me off as a friend.
Exactly your problem. You lack the respect any human being deserves. And in this cases, no f*cking will happen! It's your loss, not theirs. All they have is a story to their friends about some creepy tw*t who asked them for a f*ck.SeymourCake said:I'm tired of being friendly and nice to these smuts. It's either we're ****ing or not.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hey man, it's cool, everyone's different.SeymourCake said:I just wanna **** these girls from college and leave 'em. How can I achieve this?