SeymourCake
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I just wanna **** these girls from college and leave 'em. How can I achieve this?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm not the type for lookin' for relationships...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
SeymourCake
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How is it vague? I mean what I said. I wanna bone this girl, but how do I do it without being in a relationship with her? I've read those DJ Bible articles by the way.
SeymourCake
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But how though?
I was talking to some chick on FB and I was like "where are you? Come **** with me." She said, "excuse me?" And then took me off as a friend.
I was talking to some chick on FB and I was like "where are you? Come **** with me." She said, "excuse me?" And then took me off as a friend.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
2crudedudes
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....SeymourCake said:
SeymourCake
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I'm tired of being friendly and nice to these smuts. It's either we're ****ing or not.
SandHawk
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How? By starting to show them a little respect. A lot of girls are up for slagging around, have a f*ckbuddy without any strings attached for some casual action. But that requires that you treat them with proper respect.SeymourCake said:
The reason a lot of the DJs on the board get so many girls is because we have a certain charm. We're charming, elegant, interesting and funny. By using our charm we get under their skin and in their pants.
You should go around campus and ask random girls if they wanna f*ck. Chances are, 1/7 that you get a swift kick in the d*ck, and if you're decent looking, a 1/40 ~ 1/50 lay, mainly by desperate fat/ugly girls.
Even when I have FBs, I don't go around and invite them to f*ck, I just invite them over for a movie, some cuddling or hell, a private pyjama party. They know what will happen, but again, I show them respect. Stomping around and demanding a f*ck is disrespectful, desperate and to be honest, pathetic as hell.
Exactly your problem. You lack the respect any human being deserves. And in this cases, no f*cking will happen! It's your loss, not theirs. All they have is a story to their friends about some creepy tw*t who asked them for a f*ck.SeymourCake said:
Its like this cake because im with you on this after you get the females number call her dont text and invite her over to your crib for a movie etc find any reason to get her over because nowadays theres no need to date because it can be a waste of money and time get her over kino and escalate over and over make the ho say no and if she does back off for a min then kino kino kino then escalate if that doesnt work then repeat
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SeymourCake
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Sociopath? You think so? :-/
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Wow guys what's with all the bashing ... The guy wants to have some fun and you're treating him like he's the lowest of low-lifes.
The guys are right tho, you need to show more respect. A girl doesn't wanna be seen as a slut.
Dude you have to be direct with them, but being blatently direct on facebook will rarely succeed. Face-to-face, without actually telling them to ****, has more chances.
There was a thread from drjekyll about the apocalypse opener. Look it up.
EDIT : http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=137824
The guys are right tho, you need to show more respect. A girl doesn't wanna be seen as a slut.
Dude you have to be direct with them, but being blatently direct on facebook will rarely succeed. Face-to-face, without actually telling them to ****, has more chances.
There was a thread from drjekyll about the apocalypse opener. Look it up.
EDIT : http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=137824