"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm not sure how to reply to this plate's text

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MichaelLarry_2007

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Preface: Met and banged plate 3 times. Then we just didn't really contact for a few days and I I'm hit with

"Hey blah blah, I don't see us long term. Good thing you're seeing other people so you'll be fine. If we hang out, it can be casually- you can add me to your current rotation. I just have to go with my gut. I'm sorry to be like this."

I banged on the first date, dominated the ass and I do have other plates. I'm just trying to learn here. But what. I never said anything about being long term and we've only hung out 3 times anyways.

I'm not sure how to reply to this? (Yeah, I guess, is this a sh1t test?) I just want to continue spinning her and doing whatever. But I'm not afraid to admit this ones a first for me and I'm not quite sure how to navigate this sh1t test (if it is one). For some reason "Okay sounds good, come over to my place Friday night around 7 and don't bring the dog." does not sound like the right next move.

Any suggestions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just tell her you understand her choice, then let time pass and wait till she comes back to you
 

marmel75

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Tell her yeah that's cool and then tell her to come over on whatever day to receive her punishment. A woman just wanting to bang isn't a bad thing.
 
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