"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm not sure how to reply to this plate's text

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Preface: Met and banged plate 3 times. Then we just didn't really contact for a few days and I I'm hit with

"Hey blah blah, I don't see us long term. Good thing you're seeing other people so you'll be fine. If we hang out, it can be casually- you can add me to your current rotation. I just have to go with my gut. I'm sorry to be like this."

I banged on the first date, dominated the ass and I do have other plates. I'm just trying to learn here. But what. I never said anything about being long term and we've only hung out 3 times anyways.

I'm not sure how to reply to this? (Yeah, I guess, is this a sh1t test?) I just want to continue spinning her and doing whatever. But I'm not afraid to admit this ones a first for me and I'm not quite sure how to navigate this sh1t test (if it is one). For some reason "Okay sounds good, come over to my place Friday night around 7 and don't bring the dog." does not sound like the right next move.

Any suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just tell her you understand her choice, then let time pass and wait till she comes back to you
 
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Tell her yeah that's cool and then tell her to come over on whatever day to receive her punishment. A woman just wanting to bang isn't a bad thing.
 
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