I'm not saying NO, but I would like to chat a bit more

[devilkingx2]

Gunshy my ass! Would you be gunshy about meeting Katy Perry if she asked you out on a date?

Honestly i can imagine a guy freaking out, getting intimidated and cancelling tbh. But unless this girl is socially awkward to the max/super paranoid or OP looks like a Greek god, I doubt he could illicit that reaction out of her

 

[Glassguy]

OLD = complete waste of time

The few hot chicks that are smash able maybe even date able are looking for validation from strangers until the guy they really want, who is alpha, comes back around to play more games with her mind.

 

[Trump]

Me: After reading your profile, I knew I want to meet you, and after our chat, I still want to meet you. So let's meet up for a coffee or a drink.
She: I'm not saying NO, but I would like to chat a bit more sometime soon and take it from there.
Me: Well, nothing beat face to face chat if you're REALLY want to know someone. Let me know if you'll change your mind, bye for now.

She didn't reply.

You didn’t build enough comfort, didn’t sell yourself well enough. She offered some resistance and you collapsed.

She: I'm not saying NO, but I would like to chat a bit more sometime soon and take it from there.

You: You are right, we should chat a bit more. What more would like to know about me?

Keep your cool and keep frame.

 

[HankHill]

You didn’t build enough comfort, didn’t sell yourself well enough. She offered some resistance and you collapsed.

She: I'm not saying NO, but I would like to chat a bit more sometime soon and take it from there.

You: You are right, we should chat a bit more. What more would like to know about me?

Keep your cool and keep frame.

And had he done that people would've still told him he screwed up by agreeing with her like a beta and opening himself up to be further interviewed rather than her having to prove herself to you or for not having the IDGAF attitude. I say this to illustrate that one can never win here, it's always our fault because the interwebs people say so lol

Ultimately, in life, we all make decisions- right or wrong is dependent on the individual perspective. As long as you will be ok with whatever decision you make that's all that matters. She made her decision, OP made his.

Me personally, I did the same thing a few days ago...we chatted for a bit, she wanted to know my full name. I told her I'd tell her when we meet because it's a unique name. I gave her my first name only. Then when I asked for her ph# she didn't give it to me, insisted I disclose my name again, I didn't reply after that...well you can read it yourselves. She was cute too but the thing is I'm not bending myself too far over for someone I don't even know yet.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Read some articles from the DJ Bible first.

 

[The Diver]

You: You are right, we should chat a bit more. What more would like to know about me?

You see, this is exactly what I'm trying to avoid: proving myself worthy of her. B'cos from that point onward, ( rejecting my offer to meet up), all the power is in her hand, meeting up or not, is totally in her hand now. And I don't like to be in this position.

Since I experienced the flow of a dynamic interaction with HI women, I developed zero tolerance toward LI woman. (is it good or bad? I don't know), I just found out I really don't have the patience for BS anymore, she's in or she's out, no middle ground, no patience for tyre kickers.

For the record, the decision to meet you was in her hands from the get-go.

Can you explain why?

 

[MrWood]

my curent OLD opener:
Hello... my name is MrWood, I like your profile and style, your smile (perhaps its your lips, a sincere feature).
Lets get acquainted and see where it goes... a coffee or sweet wine, what do you say?

hint: try it

 

[HankHill]

my curent OLD opener:
Hello... my name is MrWood, I like your profile and style, your smile (perhaps its your lips, a sincere feature).
Lets get acquainted and see where it goes... a coffee or sweet wine, what do you say?

hint: try it

With those bolded words if I were a girl I'd get creeped out lol

Maybe with a slight change in the wording? Hi there, I'm MrWood. I enjoyed reading your profile, you have a great smile and I like your sense of style. Let's meet for coffee or drinks sometime?

 

[MrWood]

Yes it is bold, and targeted for Russian/Ukraine women, They respond well to this style. I have several variations, most get a 50-75% reply rate.
I would never say "sometime" however. Thanks for the critique. I have one that is a paragraph long, super bold and gets the hook in for the right woman *resp rate about 20% and probable 5 or so girls have come to visit me from Russia/Ukraine/Isreal in the last 6 mo