You didn’t build enough comfort, didn’t sell yourself well enough. She offered some resistance and you collapsed.
She: I'm not saying NO, but I would like to chat a bit more sometime soon and take it from there.
You: You are right, we should chat a bit more. What more would like to know about me?
Keep your cool and keep frame.
And had he done that people would've still told him he screwed up by agreeing with her like a beta and opening himself up to be further interviewed rather than her having to prove herself to you or for not having the IDGAF attitude. I say this to illustrate that one can never win here, it's always our fault because the interwebs people say so lol
Ultimately, in life, we all make decisions- right or wrong is dependent on the individual perspective. As long as you will be ok with whatever decision you make that's all that matters. She made her decision, OP made his.
Me personally, I did the same thing a few days ago...we chatted for a bit, she wanted to know my full name. I told her I'd tell her when we meet because it's a unique name. I gave her my first name only. Then when I asked for her ph# she didn't give it to me, insisted I disclose my name again, I didn't reply after that...well you can read it yourselves. She was cute too but the thing is I'm not bending myself too far over for someone I don't even know yet.
