"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm NOT an AFC!

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Hey everybody, I'm new here and I hope to learn alot about picking up chicks! I use to be an "AFC" but I want to change from that. I look at myself and it's almost repulsive how I use to supplicate for them. At least I am not being used as their plaything anymore!

I want to learn how to pick up girls who will be good to me and won't take me for a ride. I gotta toughen up and show them I mean business!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good for you! ..

... Now go read the bible;)


Laterz...
 
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after you read the bible..

do a bootcamp.


everyone here should do one before they even consider moving on....

if you dotn make it to atleast week 5 or 6..start over again!


trust me..I never was a real afc......but after my case of ONE-I-TIS...I did a 5 week bootcamp..and it was a miracle how great and quick it works.
 
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I have been reading this "bible". I like it! I want to read it some more.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
LMAO
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Play nice! :woo:


Laterz...
 
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Reading this "bible" has been very interesting! I have learned so much and everytime I come to a good article, I realize how AFC I use to be! I always used to call alot and this would make me appear needy and desperate, and showed her I was needy and desperate. One day she just lost interest in me, and started to act distant and cold. I tried talking with her every chance I got and I was even starting to ignore my schooling. I even failed my math class because of this!
 
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Gladly. I will be going out later tonite and I will let you know of any action! Wish me luck!
 
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Well I didn't have any good opportunities to mack tonight. I saw a few babes who seemed interested but I was no go. I hope this weekend might prove to be more productive!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There are always good oppurtunities to mack ALWAYS a good DJ takes advantage of them an AFC denies they exist.
 
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