Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm NOT an AFC!

DumpaLumpagus

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Hey everybody, I'm new here and I hope to learn alot about picking up chicks! I use to be an "AFC" but I want to change from that. I look at myself and it's almost repulsive how I use to supplicate for them. At least I am not being used as their plaything anymore!

I want to learn how to pick up girls who will be good to me and won't take me for a ride. I gotta toughen up and show them I mean business!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Climax

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Good for you! ..

... Now go read the bible;)


Laterz...
 

frivolousz21

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after you read the bible..

do a bootcamp.


everyone here should do one before they even consider moving on....

if you dotn make it to atleast week 5 or 6..start over again!


trust me..I never was a real afc......but after my case of ONE-I-TIS...I did a 5 week bootcamp..and it was a miracle how great and quick it works.
 

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I have been reading this "bible". I like it! I want to read it some more.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Climax

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
LMAO
Play nice! :woo:


Laterz...
 

DumpaLumpagus

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Reading this "bible" has been very interesting! I have learned so much and everytime I come to a good article, I realize how AFC I use to be! I always used to call alot and this would make me appear needy and desperate, and showed her I was needy and desperate. One day she just lost interest in me, and started to act distant and cold. I tried talking with her every chance I got and I was even starting to ignore my schooling. I even failed my math class because of this!
 

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Gladly. I will be going out later tonite and I will let you know of any action! Wish me luck!
 

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Well I didn't have any good opportunities to mack tonight. I saw a few babes who seemed interested but I was no go. I hope this weekend might prove to be more productive!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There are always good oppurtunities to mack ALWAYS a good DJ takes advantage of them an AFC denies they exist.
 
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