Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm NOT an AFC!

DumpaLumpagus

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Hey everybody, I'm new here and I hope to learn alot about picking up chicks! I use to be an "AFC" but I want to change from that. I look at myself and it's almost repulsive how I use to supplicate for them. At least I am not being used as their plaything anymore!

I want to learn how to pick up girls who will be good to me and won't take me for a ride. I gotta toughen up and show them I mean business!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Climax

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Good for you! ..

... Now go read the bible;)


Laterz...
 

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after you read the bible..

do a bootcamp.


everyone here should do one before they even consider moving on....

if you dotn make it to atleast week 5 or 6..start over again!


trust me..I never was a real afc......but after my case of ONE-I-TIS...I did a 5 week bootcamp..and it was a miracle how great and quick it works.
 

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I have been reading this "bible". I like it! I want to read it some more.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
LMAO
Play nice! :woo:


Laterz...
 

DumpaLumpagus

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Reading this "bible" has been very interesting! I have learned so much and everytime I come to a good article, I realize how AFC I use to be! I always used to call alot and this would make me appear needy and desperate, and showed her I was needy and desperate. One day she just lost interest in me, and started to act distant and cold. I tried talking with her every chance I got and I was even starting to ignore my schooling. I even failed my math class because of this!
 

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Gladly. I will be going out later tonite and I will let you know of any action! Wish me luck!
 

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Well I didn't have any good opportunities to mack tonight. I saw a few babes who seemed interested but I was no go. I hope this weekend might prove to be more productive!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There are always good oppurtunities to mack ALWAYS a good DJ takes advantage of them an AFC denies they exist.
 
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