"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm NOT an AFC!

DumpaLumpagus

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Hey everybody, I'm new here and I hope to learn alot about picking up chicks! I use to be an "AFC" but I want to change from that. I look at myself and it's almost repulsive how I use to supplicate for them. At least I am not being used as their plaything anymore!

I want to learn how to pick up girls who will be good to me and won't take me for a ride. I gotta toughen up and show them I mean business!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Climax

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Good for you! ..

... Now go read the bible;)


Laterz...
 

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after you read the bible..

do a bootcamp.


everyone here should do one before they even consider moving on....

if you dotn make it to atleast week 5 or 6..start over again!


trust me..I never was a real afc......but after my case of ONE-I-TIS...I did a 5 week bootcamp..and it was a miracle how great and quick it works.
 

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I have been reading this "bible". I like it! I want to read it some more.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Climax

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
LMAO
Play nice! :woo:


Laterz...
 

DumpaLumpagus

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Reading this "bible" has been very interesting! I have learned so much and everytime I come to a good article, I realize how AFC I use to be! I always used to call alot and this would make me appear needy and desperate, and showed her I was needy and desperate. One day she just lost interest in me, and started to act distant and cold. I tried talking with her every chance I got and I was even starting to ignore my schooling. I even failed my math class because of this!
 

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Gladly. I will be going out later tonite and I will let you know of any action! Wish me luck!
 

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Well I didn't have any good opportunities to mack tonight. I saw a few babes who seemed interested but I was no go. I hope this weekend might prove to be more productive!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There are always good oppurtunities to mack ALWAYS a good DJ takes advantage of them an AFC denies they exist.
 
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