"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm no expert but......................

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Raoul Duke

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I'm pretty sure when a girl i fancy starts talking to me about some other bloke and how she was stood up by him, i dont stand a chance. Am i right?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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runnincircles

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Eh, you do, but it's going to be harder to get her to stop thinking about him and focus on you. Alot of people just think it isn't worth it to deal with these girls. Myself included.
 
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When she talks about another guy she's into I always say: "Come on you've been saying the same thing for like 5 minutes. This is getting boring"
She usually stops talking about it and mentions him a few times later depending how much she's into him but that's okay.
 
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Originally posted by Raoul Duke
I'm pretty sure when a girl i fancy starts talking to me about some other bloke and how she was stood up by him, i dont stand a chance. Am i right?
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Not so fast Raoul. I have actually found this to be a good thing some times. Check this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16559&perpage=20&pagenumber=1

Pay particular attention to Pook's reply there, it is dead on. It's quite possible she is trying to fire you up. Chicks do this constantly, you just have to be aware of what's happening. You'll want to slap yourself when you think of all the chances you blew in the past.
 
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