“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm no expert but......................

Raoul Duke

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I'm pretty sure when a girl i fancy starts talking to me about some other bloke and how she was stood up by him, i dont stand a chance. Am i right?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Eh, you do, but it's going to be harder to get her to stop thinking about him and focus on you. Alot of people just think it isn't worth it to deal with these girls. Myself included.
 

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When she talks about another guy she's into I always say: "Come on you've been saying the same thing for like 5 minutes. This is getting boring"
She usually stops talking about it and mentions him a few times later depending how much she's into him but that's okay.
 

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Originally posted by Raoul Duke
I'm pretty sure when a girl i fancy starts talking to me about some other bloke and how she was stood up by him, i dont stand a chance. Am i right?
Not so fast Raoul. I have actually found this to be a good thing some times. Check this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16559&perpage=20&pagenumber=1

Pay particular attention to Pook's reply there, it is dead on. It's quite possible she is trying to fire you up. Chicks do this constantly, you just have to be aware of what's happening. You'll want to slap yourself when you think of all the chances you blew in the past.
 
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