"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm no expert but......................

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I'm pretty sure when a girl i fancy starts talking to me about some other bloke and how she was stood up by him, i dont stand a chance. Am i right?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Eh, you do, but it's going to be harder to get her to stop thinking about him and focus on you. Alot of people just think it isn't worth it to deal with these girls. Myself included.
 
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When she talks about another guy she's into I always say: "Come on you've been saying the same thing for like 5 minutes. This is getting boring"
She usually stops talking about it and mentions him a few times later depending how much she's into him but that's okay.
 
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Originally posted by Raoul Duke
I'm pretty sure when a girl i fancy starts talking to me about some other bloke and how she was stood up by him, i dont stand a chance. Am i right?
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Not so fast Raoul. I have actually found this to be a good thing some times. Check this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16559&perpage=20&pagenumber=1

Pay particular attention to Pook's reply there, it is dead on. It's quite possible she is trying to fire you up. Chicks do this constantly, you just have to be aware of what's happening. You'll want to slap yourself when you think of all the chances you blew in the past.
 
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