"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'm meeting someone from HotOrNot
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Pack some mace or pepper spray.....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
Soma
Banned
GET LOADS OF NEW PICS OF HER IN VARIOUS SITUATIONS. FACE AND BODY SHOTS!!! That is the PRIMARY rule. Break it at your own risk. You WILL be sorry if you don't follow it.
But anyway...you're already going to meet her and you know nothing about each other other than the TINY bit you see on Hot or Not.
This girl is either A) A slut. Play it right and you WILL fvck her the first time out...B) She has some type of problem in her life...recent breakup, low self esteem, psche problems, etc. Again, play it right and you WILL fvck her the first night.
Of course, that's assuming you'll even want to once you meet up. But dude, either way, this sh1t is in the bag. You're fvcking, and that's that. Have fun and let us know how it goes!
-Soma
dementia is pretty much on the money here, listen to him, he knows what he's talking about. It's one of those things where if you talk too much before you meet, then you not only run out of things to talk about without repeating conversations, but you also run the risk of the gal getting this image of you in her mind that you have to live up to, otherwise the wind will be taken out of her sails. I think there's obviously a good way to get around this, but it will involve making sure that you are no different in person than you are on the net and you have new stuff to talk about.Originally posted by dementia
ive met a couple girls from the net... first 2 i talked to for about a month or more and, met up and had not much to talk about and they where quite disasterous. (from my AFC life).
Next 2 i fvcked first date, 1 im about to fvck on the 3rd. Thing i found is u an get alot of chicks interested in u just from talkin online, but its important u meet them before u start running out of **** to talk about online (which is usually around 3 hrs) save it for the date. Usually they do wanna meet otherwise why talk?? Just ask and if they say no NEXT.
"Its **** in the bag" hahah thats funny cos its true.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MrBond_Age
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